Is she lying to me?
This girl I’ve been talking to was acting funny with me last night. We were talking on Snapchat and when I said “i love you” she ignored that message and left me on read. She was on and off on Facebook last night but didn’t bother replying back to my message. I then messaged her on Snapchat again last night but she didn’t open it. (The second message was me asking her why she’s ignoring me)
She rang me this morning (she always does) and i asked her about this but she insisted that she didn’t ignore me. She said “she thought” she replied to my message when i said “i love you” and that her Facebook sometimes stays logged on.
Here’s my problem with that.
1) she was on and off on Facebook late last night
2) if she thought she replied to my message, surely she would have doubled checked again to see why i wasn’t replying?
I’m confused. What should I do?
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What sort of a relationship/friendship is this? Pretty poor, I would say.
You immediately think she is lying? That is not a good sign.
I think that you need to put your phone away until you finish 8th grade.
She’s lying. And, you blew it by saying “I love you.”
I think that her non-response is the response. She doesn’t feel that way about you or is afraid of having your relationship move forward so fast.
Back off. Give her a little space and time. Then say it again. In person, this time, you dummy! See how she responds.
She is not in love with you, at least not right now. You probably caught her off guard and she feels awkward and doesn’t know what to say, and doesn’t want to embarrass you.
Back off. If she still wants to be friends with you, she will come to you. Don’t push her to talk to you, or to explain. That will make this awkward situation worse.
Are you friends with this girl in real life? If so, when you see her, just be nice, and don’t make any demands of her attention. If she ignores you, then realize that she doesn’t feel the same way about you and let it (and her) go. Then move on. Next time, get to know the young lady for a much longer time, and try to assess if she has similar feelings towards you before you say “I love you.”
If you only know this girl online, realize that she doesn’t even know you, and you don’t know her. Don’t say “I love you” to people who you don’t know, especially those people you don’t know at all in real life (for a good long while).
Perhaps she needed time to think over your message..which shows that she cares about your feelings ( to lie about it). Perhaps she realizes that she cannot be truthful to you as you are all over her fro not replying at YOUR time schedule.
Maybe she likes you as a friend and not anything serious as yet..you have to ask her “if your message made her feel uncomfortable and “why”? Apologize to her for expecting her response
immediately. Tell her you wish to talk about it with her as you care about her fellings on the matter.Let her know that its Ok if she is not ready for that as yet and to remain friends if she wants.
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