@JeSuisRickSpringfield I sort of agree and disagree in parts, but I think my position has been misunderstood—and I’ve not really explained myself fully.
Taking the “least bad option” isn’t something unique to women, and isn’t necessarily sexual. We’re all systemically coerced to one extent or another. Working an undesirable job, working for a boss you don’t like, making choices one doesn’t like—that happens to most people, in all sorts of contexts, in a variety of different ways, every single minute of the day. (And I don’t like it, and would like it not to be this way.)
We do live in a stratified society with people having different levels of social power which they can leverage, or exploit cynically. The powerful can act with less accountability and often complete impunity. Someone like Bezos can abuse his workers, driving them to stress, depression and despair, and extract billions in wealth out of their labour—but is largely lauded for his “accomplishments” and his appropriated wealth and status are glorified.
The rich are often given relatively light sentences for crimes (often given suspended setences, or time in halfway houses or low-sec prisons), with the mere “embarrassing” experience of being charged and prosecuted being deemed as contributing to their punishment.
Where I think I diverge with much of the sentiment on this thread, is that I think women’s sexuality also gives them some degree of social power which can, and often is, cynically leveraged for personal gain. There is an unfortunate confluence of capitalist norms and values: materialism, social climbing, competition—and the innate sexual tendencies and preferences of men and women, which are not the same.
For example: men tend not to be “gold diggers”, because the opportunity and the sexual dynamics for them to be so just don’t exist in the same way as it does for women. Women just don’t give enough of a shit about men’s looks and sexual attractiveness the same way men do about women’s.
So even if it is the case that every woman ever who got a promotion, or a career advancement, by using her sexuality and giving sexual favours—and absolutely all of them felt it was the “least bad option”—it at least was an option.