What happens when girls say no to giving a guy money, if they have given them money in the past?

Sounds like a good reason to ‘just say no’ if there ever was one.

But such a guy won’t leave you alone that easily. You SHOULD be paying this guy to buy him off, not keep him around.

I would say that if you are with a guy that always wants you to give him money, it might be time to find a different guy. But if you want a true answer to your answer, tell him “no” and see what happens. I’m guessing if he is a true user (someone who uses another person), there will be begging/pleading followed by angry accusations all of which are forms of manipulation. But here’s the key…you don’t need a reason to say no. You don’t need to give a reason to this person. Tell him you don’t have a 30’ piece of rope in your garage as the reason. When a person doesn’t want to do something, one reason is as good as the next.

If he fixes your car, or does your housecleaning or some job, why would you give away your money to anyone? If a friend is having a hard time paying rent, you may help them once but they have to grow up & figure it out themselves. I have had more than one job many times, but I dont ask my friends for money.

@Anonymous05 You said, “but I think if someone keeps on choosing to try to hang around the wrong person, then they learn by the extreme.”

I don’t think that’s always true. It’s not true in your case. You have continued to justify this guy’s bad behavior, because you are kind of obsessed with him.

It is true, if someone keeps hanging around scum bags, they eventually have extreme consequences.

If you want the truth Kardamom. And the question was: What happens, when you do say, “no?” Cause I heard men like these get extremelly agressive, then they start saying what they really think when you say no. I saw a few youtube videos by Toney Gaskins, and a few others.

@Anonymous05 It completely depends upon the person you say no to. If it’s a decent person, like a good, kind friend you’ve loaned money to in the past, but now you say you can’t afford it, that person is likely to say, “Oh OK” and that’s the end of it. Other people, who are not decent people will likely get mad and could do or say all sorts of things.

I’m really not sure what you want to know. The guy you are referring to is a creep, but you are attracted to him, and somewhat obsessed. I would highly suggest moving on from this guy and find yourself some new friends.

@ Kardamom- Thank you, but I have great friends. And you suggest it, but we all do what we want. NEVER did I once say he was a creep, and if he is a creep to you (who doesn’t know him) – what exactly about him sounds creepy then huh? And I NEVER gave you, or anyone else enough info about this, so idk why you keep saying that. And what do you even mean
when you say, that’s not the case in my situation?