Starting in high school I grew my red hair long (child of the 60’s/70’s). It continued growing through college and almost my entire college life I either wore it loose or more commonly in a pony tail. It was rather unruly when left loose. It also darkened from a classic ginger to an auburn color over this time period.
Just prior to joining the real world workforce, along with shaving off my beard I cut it rather short, maybe a couple of inches long and wore it that way for a couple of years. Later, because the natural waviness never let it part or sit right, my wife convinced me to get a perm and I wore an afro for another couple of years. It got bigger and bigger until I changed jobs and moved back to the town where I attended college when I cut it short again, this time about an inch long overall, let it curl and did not try to have a part. By this time grey hairs were appearing.
I kept my hair short for a few more years but vacillated between a mustache, goatee and full beard however, finally settling on the beard. The grey kept on advancing, taking over more and more while my beard became a tri-color affair, red, black and grey. Wore it this way for several year through my late 20’s and early 30’s.
About my mid thirties I went into business with an old school friend. Most of our work was bid work and bid work goes to the lowest bidder usually. At this time I decided to grow my hair out again as I had worn it in college. I figured if people didn’t like my hair they didn’t have to hire my company. As far as I know, no one ever chose to pay more money to hire another company because my hair was in a pony tail. The grey continued to advance.
Since that time I have always worn my hair long. I went from a pony tail to a braid about twenty years back and thus it is today. Both my hair and my beard almost completely grey and my hair is a lot thinner than it was; in part because about seven years ago I made the mistake of using a very strong chemical (read poison) on my head to kill the lice I received as a present from my granddaughter who got them from the day care she was attending. (I should have just shaved my head, it would have grown back).
I have threatened repeatedly over the past two years to cut it short, buzz cut short, but my wife and grandkids don’t want me to. She enjoys braiding my hair each morning and the grandkids have never known me without the braid. But the thinning is noticeable as is the enlarging bald spot on the back of my head. So, a few more years the way it is anyway and then who knows, maybe shave it all off (well, not the beard).
FWIW my old friend and business partner has decided that now he is retired he is going to grow his hair out again. It is nowhere near as long as he wore it in college. Yet. But, he now has a two inch grey ponytail that he is quite proud/fond of. Right now his beard length is about “Trucker”. For the past 20 years he has fluctuated between “caveman” and “grandpa” with one memorable foray to “Hillbilly” when his wife spent a year or so overseas.