I get this feeling from people, please tell me if I am wrong(rest in details)?

I want to give a few examples…
If you suddenly turn and deck the bully, you are then viewed as the aggressor , I get this feeling from people am I wrong?

If you don’t want to have children people automatically think you dislike children, I get this feeling from people am I wrong?

If you are a firearm enthusiast, people think you are against any kind of gun control laws, I get this feeling from people am I wrong?