How many people are there in your life, where you hate ever single aspect of their being and behaviour, and how do you deal with them, if you can not avoid contact?
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Yes myself. I have pills for that.
I’m down to zero in my personal life.
It’s a bit painful to remember the people & situations which were a bit like that before.
My favorite tactic is to have nothing at all to do with such people, and to speak up about my assessments of them whenever they come up in conversations with others.
That can be a problem when there is some sort of family and/or professional relationships involved and some people won’t engage the problems and prefer conflict avoidance and hoping the problems don’t exist or will go away or leave them alone if they pretend the person isn’t horrible. In that case, I’ve found the people who will listen and done my best to form covert support groups where we listen to each other and work on what we can do to cope and improve the situation.
Maybe one or two, but I don’t have to see them often (if at all) because they live out West. So I don’t need to worry about the contact piece.
Mostly I forget they even exist unless someone mentions their name.
None. If I don’t like them, I’m not around them. If it’s a circumstance at work or in life I can’t avoid, I’m socially polite, no more or less but I try hard not to hate anyone, but to see them as a parent see’s a child, there’s usually something good about them somewhere.
None coz I deal with them by firing their arses…also…*every
In my personal life I have no one, in my work life just one but I transferred to night shift so I don’t have to deal with them.
Every so often I have people like that in my life…usually business life. When I have to deal with them I just remind myself to not take life too seriously.
I have had a few people like that in my career. I learned to limit my interactions as best I could; and when I did have to interact with them, did so with the utmost courtesy and respect.
Thankfully, no one.
One of my (college assigned) roommates was like that but we parted ways as soon as the semester ended.
Then just detest a little then?^^
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