@MrGrimm888 – Most of your post was telling me something I already know…and stated…
@thisismyusername: “On a personal level, when I see people speeding in residential neighborhoods, I get an instant shot of adrenaline and usually do something stupid.”
I should have been more clear re: this. I was attempting to contrast my stupid behavior against some old lady just pointing out that the guy was driving too fast in that neighborhood.
@MrGrimm888: “Know your place in this world. If you want to enforce traffic laws, I’m sure there are openings in you area for police, or state troopers.”
This is where we likely disagree. Talking to your neighbors about safe behavior in the neighborhood is far more preferable to involving the police. Our “place in the world” shouldn’t just be to call the authorities on people.
@MrGrimm888: “If a civilian overstepped, and told me their unqualified/unwanted opinions about anything I’m doing, your darn right I will tell them off. If they wish to escalate things into violence, good luck…”
This is what I was responding to originally. If someone was concerned you were speeding in the neighborhood – and you _were – it feels as though someone mentioning this to you would be “overstepping”.
@Zaku: “Yes, and the norms are often higher than the speed limits.”
And in neighborhoods, the norms are quite often not higher than speed limits.
@Zaku: “I take into account animals, people and cars I can see, and places where I can’t see where there might be someone. I remember playing around cars as a kid and often hiding from them as a game, and don’t drive faster than I think I can stop to avoid and sudden appearances.”
I’m sure you do, and you’re probably a great driver. But everyone thinks that the speed they are going is the safest speed to go. This doesn’t mean that we don’t need speed limits. And it doesn’t mean that you are correct about your self-assessment when driving through a residential neighborhood.
@Zaku: “It often doesn’t, and shouldn’t. But there are many places where the legal limit is far below the “norms” you mentioned (as discussed in the article I linked above, and here ), where driving the speed limit can often annoy other drivers.”
I can’t imagine a scenario in which a neighborhood speed limit would be too slow. And if this were to annoy other drivers, my response would be that the speed limit is still probably too high.
Other than driving someone who is critically ill or injured to the hospital, there is no reason to be speeding through a residential neighborhood. And if someone calls you out on it, coming here to complain and have people pile on by saying that they would call her a “bitch” seems inappropriate and anti-social. I really hope that if someone were to come to me and tell me that they had concerns I was engaged in dangerous behavior in the neighborhood that I would not respond defensively. I hope that I would thank her for her shared concern for the safety of everyone in the neighborhood. I hope that I would reconsider my behavior.