@MrGrimm888 I don’t know. I’d say it’s very tricky. Part of my strong identity as a Jew is I have no choice, because society, especially the haters, mark me as a Jew no matter what I do. I think if society was blind to race and religion, it would be completely different for minorities. I think lots of labels would go away, the need for statistics would go away, the need to help your own would go away, and everyone would be just one group of human beings.
Strong feelings about identity I think are more of a reaction than anything. I think what @Yellowdog said about blacks wanting to be a distinct group is interesting. Supposedly, groups that have pridecanout their culture tend to do well in America. Black pride was maybe an attempt at that. As I write this, I’m just wondering how deliberate that movement was back in the 70’s and 80’s. I’m not so sure they WANT a distinct culture, not all of them. Not if parts of the culture are destructive in some ways.
Building a culture is an interesting way to look at it though. A friend of mine was offered a job in Atlanta, and her boss told her it would be great for her and her family, because of the black culture there. I remember her thinking out loud to me whether she was ok with that expression, let alone whether that was attractive to her. She didn’t move in the end, but for a myriad of reasons.
The same friend of mine was pissed 25 years ago when there was a few articles in some magazines about Ebonics. She thought it was ridiculous to call it a real language and try to give it status. She herself once in a while sounds a little “black” but she knows she isn’t using that when going on an interview. There are some other things she likes and does that are stereotypical black, but overall, what she identifies with, is educated professionals regardless of race. She also happens to be a religious Catholic.
I think the big divider (I’m not talking about politics, I’m talking about paychographics and cultural norms) in our country is social class, not race, ethnicity, or religion. That’s true in most countries, but in America we come from a history of being loathe to discuss it. I think it stems from our rejection of a royal class, and our desire to believe everyone is created equal, and we are a merit based society.
What I see more and more now is mention and stories of black peoples in our history who were incredible. I saw a presentation during black history month two years ago that included scientists, inventors, leaders, people who changed the world. I think this is a great path. Funny, when I see a presentation around that topic, what always stands out to me is the women, I guess because I’m a woman. Eventually, I hope there isn’t a separate presentation for black people like that, but just all included with all people in history. The separate presentation should not be necessary.
@ALL No matter what, we will use descriptors for skin and hair and height and eye color. I think that never goes away, so I’m not so sure the term black, or an equivalent, ever goes away. But, I will say I have never used the terms yellow, red, or brown to describe skin color. I’ve used pink, peach, olive, and red to describe undertones though, but it’s rare. It’s only when talking about make-up or clothing or a topic specifically related to skin color.