Seriously man. Our children are like, not the same anymore. They don’t have to develop social skills, because they can use electronics, to satisfy some social needs.
Social interaction, is tough. Especially if you are different from the majority of other kids. That difference, could be a wild variety of variables.
This kid in Sante Fe, wore a black trench coat. I’m not saying that we stop and frisk the kid. But we could have talked to him. Adults around him could have engaged him, in general conversation, and maybe either helped the kid, or learned something that could prevent a calamity.
I used to talk to my nephew, every day, when I lived in a big house with him. Usually in the morning, before he left for school. If he had problems that weren’t too serious, I would counsel him. If I thought that the issue was out of my authority (vs his Dad,) to opine on, I talked to his father about it.
I wonder if some of these kids, just needed someone to recognize that they needed to be spoken to, and maybe they could be helped with whatever is troubling them.
Ugh. I hate Hillary, but I’m going to quote her, “it takes a village.”
That’s actually a very deep, and true saying, in reference to raising our children. Right now, some of our children have a village of electronic crap, that doesn’t care about them, or ask them how they’re doing, or even listen to them. Sometimes, a good listening session with a kid, with no advice given, can be therapeutic for a child with nobody to talk to.
I think about the increase in these violent incidents. The biggest change, is we are letting our kids grow up with all this technology, that doesn’t really help them interactive with people.
Throw a football with your young cousin you never see at Thanksgiving. Chat with him, (or her.) Shoot some hoops with that sad kid down the street. Help that kid fix their bike chain. Be a part of the community. You’ll help lots of people, and know more about what’s going on.
This kid in Santa Fe, is a potential goldmine. I hope they psychoanylize the shit out of him, and learn where, or if something would have changed his mind about things.
Maybe we can learn from him, and make recommendations for the future.