How do I get the girl?

Let her come to you. If you are compatable then she will feel something too. It doesn’t all have to be you. She probably gets hit on daily and she might appreciate you respecting her personal space.

@RedDeerGuy1 She doesn’t know I exist. I have to make a move.

@Eggie I wouldn’t be so sure. I would wait it out untill she gets to asking her friends about you. Best you can do is be a gentlemen to everyone because who knows what would come back to her. She could be married for all you know. You can ask your friends about her. When she is ready then she will seek you out. Sounds like she is busy with work and life and doesn’t have the time to date yet.

@RedDeerGuy1 and if that doesn’t work?

@Eggie Then you take the high road and move on. I get mild chrushes from time to time. There is always another crush. I want to know if she feels the same before moving deeper into a relationship. If she doesn’t know I exist then its a clue to me to move on if she wants to date then she would have already veted you . Relationships are best when natural. I had a crush on a lab tech yesterday just because she was tall and I did nothing. She was working and could not find a way to speak to her. What will be will be.

I would stop playing games like pretending not to notice her. Women are not stupid and most don’t want drama or to teach dating skills. You could just ask her out for coffee and move on if she says no. Maybe she likes you too? Its modern times and she could ask you out. Just relax and be normal.

My father told me that it is the woman that chooses the man, not the other way around.
Try to be in places where she can see you and you can say hello. Don’t be a macho ass! Don’t stand around like Gomer Pyle like you’re the only man on Earth; you’re not! Be cool! Be yourself. If she wants to meet you on a more personal basis, she’ll find a way. Otherwise, let it go…

@kritiper GA! That way is less stressful.

Go make friends, be charming, smell good, dress nice and go get her!

A lot of hot girls are hit on morning to night, just be cool and friendly, ask her to lunch or something low key.

Whoa, whoa! Hold it, Tiger. First of all, instead of constructing a strategy to get her you must know first whether or not she has already established a relationship with someone, which you could ask by chatting her friends/coworkers. Second, it is not admirable to judge a woman based on her ‘hotness’, women prefer to be seen for their personality and who they really are, instead of physical attributes, unless you want her to see you as a creepy guy. Third, it’s more important to do it slowly and naturally step by step. Being acquaintance first, to see if she really is your type outside her physical appearance as well as to judge whether or not she’s even interested to become your acquaintance, then if things goes well then you both can become friends or even move on the the next level if she really likes you and haven’t engaged to someone yet. Fourth, the thing is, love at first sight is fickle and a fairytale, you need to live a relationship to have a relationship.

Well, I suppose you could follow her around with your tongue hanging out, drooling a little, until she offers to rub your belly. How about that? ~

EGGIE!!!
long time no see, sweetie.
Remember Jonesin4burgers?
I can’t believe you are still having lady troubles.
Are you a teacher now?

Look, the very best thing for you to do is don’t be offensive.
Don’t smell bad or have bad breath.
Don’t say anything mean, creepy or too pushy.
Let her know you are around, but not like a starving stray dog.
Open a door as she approaches, greet her politely when chance presents. Sometime, you will see her outdoors right when flowers are growing near. Pick one, just one, and give it to her. You don’t have to say anything witty, just hello, but DO use her name when you say hello.

@Patty Perfect advice, love the flower move, slick!