A Facebook friend of mine who doesn’t like Trump, who I assume is an independent, but might be a democrat, who is an author, and I think she did some journalism work too, she wrote this today:
Last year, when the accusations of #metoo started, directed against men in positions of power abusing women, and also, adult men abusing girls, I wrote a post saying that that had never happened to me.
Then, I was talking with my husband, and told him about a time when I was walking to high school, and a friend pulled over and invited me to a party. It took me about 2 minutes to decide to go.
Some party it turned out to be. I was the only girl there, and being with a bunch of boys was boring as hell. So, I grabbed a book and headed to a bedroom to read in peace and quiet.
Two boys came in and announced that I was in the bedroom because I wanted to have sex with them, which I denied. They attacked me and started trying to take off my clothes.
Another boy heard me screaming and came in and pulled them off me, and told them he would kick their asses if they touched me again, so they backed off.
My husband stared at me, and said ’‘You were sexually assaulted’’.
I said, “Well, yes, but the rules of #metoo are, it can’t be someone your own age, it has to be your boss or someone like that’’.
And now, here we are, 18 months later, and the rules have changed.
Let me just say that the only conclusion I drew from the incident was that Dickie Snuggs was an even bigger asshole than I already knew that he was. I did not draw the conclusion that all males were assholes, because I already knew that they weren’t (and that he was), and one of them had saved me.
I’m pretty sure that Dickie Snuggs ended up in prison, and will not be nominated to the Supreme Court, but if he is, I’m telling this now. You know, to be ready.
I asked her a few things, but I’ll be brief here. I asked her if she was traumatized in anyway by the event. She said no, once she escaped she just chalked it up to those boys being assholes. I asked her if she would want to press charges if there was no statute of limitations. She answered no.
That is a perfect example of why women can forgive this sort of crap if it’s just one horrible drunk teenage incident, it has happened to a bunch of us girls.
The investigation is important, because if there is a pattern that is something else.
Also, I’m tired of people telling women they have to be traumatized. Thank goodness when we aren’t. You don’t have to be traumatized to still be able to say that a man who does that committed assault, it’s still an assault.