Social Question

Dutchess_III's avatar

Why on earth would any male actually think a woman would want an unsolicited picture of his penis?

Asked by Dutchess_III (47069points) October 3rd, 2018

It befuddles me. Are there any women here who would welcome such a picture?

Observing members: 0 Composing members: 0

37 Answers

kritiper's avatar

No, no, no, that’s not it at all. The male thinks if the woman sees a pic of his dick, she’ll want to try it out.

rebbel's avatar

Total dick move.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Fore realz @kritiper? That is insane!

Totally @rebbel!

kritiper's avatar

Sure as shit.

LadyMarissa's avatar

They can’t keep their hands off it & they’re hoping that she’ll feel the same!!!

ragingloli's avatar

All Males would welcome unsolicited pictures of a female’s chest-mounted, fat protrusions, so they project their own desires upon the prospective female recipient.

SergeantQueen's avatar

Because the men who send these pics are fucking dumb, horny pigs. No one wants a dick pic. They are narcissistic and think every woman does.
Here is a possible response to such pics:
“My dad’s is bigger”
Guaranteed he’ll leave you the fuck alone (Unless that is his fetish?)

josie's avatar

Couldn’t tell you.

I have spent almost my whole
adult life with macho commandos and they wouldn’t do that.
Although they do use socially unacceptable language.
I figure it is a sign of immaturity.
Immaturity is sort of an epidemic these days.

Zaku's avatar

Projection of their own horndog mindset, joined with ignorance and foolishness and little/no ability to relate to a woman’s perspective, etc…

Oh, and the general lack of resources to learn such things in their culture.

chyna's avatar

Send me a puppy pic instead of a dick pic and you will win me over.

ARE_you_kidding_me's avatar

How many of you fluther females have gotten a legit dick pic sent to you?

RedDeerGuy1's avatar

I got nude pics from my high school crush on Facebook. I flagged. I appreciated them but didn’t want her past to haunt her later.

rojo's avatar

Are you soliciting?

MrGrimm888's avatar

Is it really such a conundrum?

Females often wear clothing that expose, or accentuate their genitals, whether or not we want to see them.

Bikinis, yoga pants etc, all make a female practically naked in public.

Instagram, and other such social media platforms are full of millions of females showing off their bodies. The average female seems to take much delight in taking provocative pictures of themselves.

Yet another double standard here.

kritiper's avatar

@MrGrimm888 Makes a good point, or attempted to make the point, that many women wear clothing that shows off their mammalian protuberances. Granted, such feminine appendages are not exactly sexual genitalia.

MrGrimm888's avatar

^In my mind, it’s exactly the same. Breasts, are a female’s external genitalia. With yoga pants, and swim suits, I can tell a lot about their internal genitalia as well. NOT complaining. Just saying…

LadyMarissa's avatar

^ Sounds like a complaint to me!!! LoL ♥ ♥ ♥

seawulf575's avatar

I think it’s called poor impulse control by the guy. Or maybe a poor decision acted upon, urged on by large quantities of alcohol.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Here again is the difference that men don’t seem to grasp. Men LIKE seeing naked female strangers, whether it’s a close up of boobs or ass or knees or whatever.
Women do NOT like seeing pictures of male genitalia. That’s not a double standard. That is what it is. Women dress revealing because the men like it. In fact, @RedDeerGuy1 commented that he LIKED the pictures some woman sent him. @MrGrimm888 said he certainly wasn’t complaining.
Women ARE complaining.

ragingloli's avatar

They are usually very ugly penises, cradled in disgustingly hairy crotches, with terrible lighting and colour balance. Ugh.

ARE_you_kidding_me's avatar

I don’t understand the phenomena, I mean the thought never crossed my mind that “gee I guess what this woman really would like is a close up of my hairy cock and balls”
@Dutchess_III Why would you think this applies to any men here on fluther.

chyna's avatar

Thank you @ragingloli for that visual aid.~

LadyMarissa's avatar

@ragingloli I’ll NEVER be able to look at another one without breaking into a deep guttural laugh!!! You officially just ruined my sex life with that one visual!!!

Dutchess_lll's avatar

@ARE you kidding…I think there is one man here who is capable of such a thing, and certain that we women don’t really know what we want. Certain that deep down inside we really LIKE it, but we’re just being coy.
There have been a couple others in the past but they’re gone.

Dutchess_III's avatar

I misread your comment @ARE_you_kidding_me, when you said, ”Why would you think this applies to any men here on fluther.”. I read, “Do you think there are any men on Fluther who would do that.” I answer in that vein.?
But other than that, I don’t think I implied anywhere above that any men on fluther would do that. We have a pretty great group of guys, IMO.

rojo's avatar

I only contribute to solicited dick picks.

LadyMarissa's avatar

^ please!!! ♥ ♥ ♥ ROFLMFAO

rojo's avatar

^^^Nice that you said please @LadyMarissa, where do you want it sent?

Dutchess_III's avatar

OMG GET A ROOM YOU TWO!!!

gorillapaws's avatar

I think this is a case of “if you show me yours, I’ll show you mine” combined with delusional levels of wishful thinking…

MrGrimm888's avatar

I’ve sent dick pics before. Only to women I’ve already been sexually active with though. And I never included my testicles.

By the way, lots of women like seeing penises. There are multiple hidden camera videos showing women checking out guy’s crotches. There are countless “girl reacts to big dick” videos as well. Just saying.

Pandora's avatar

EGO and perversion. It really is no different than meeting a flasher.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Hmmmm. Never thought of that @Pandora.

Response moderated (Spam)
Dutchess_III's avatar

That reminds me….when I was dating Jerry we were watching “On Any Given Sunday” for the first time. My 73 year old Mom was here too, watching with us.
Suddenly we got hit, face on, with THAT locker room scene! The one where the guy is standing there with a dick almost literally hanging down to his knees!
I yelped and said, “Oh Mom!! I’m so sorry!!”
Jerry was all over himself with apology too.
Mom looked at us perplexed, then said, “That? Oh. Well. You’ve seen one you’ve seen them all.”
We just ROLLED!
And it’s true, too.

Answer this question

Login

or

Join

to answer.
Your answer will be saved while you login or join.

Have a question? Ask Fluther!

What do you know more about?
or
Knowledge Networking @ Fluther