@Patty_Melt I remember in some politics classes (back in the relatively much more civilized 1980’s) the subject being discussed about how the US people tend to elect presidents based on a presidential archetype, which seems to require them to be married, Christian (and in the 20th Century, a male white Anglo-Saxon Protestant), and preferably have served in the military and (pre-Trump) have some political experience. Before 1980 (Reagan), it also seemed important to seem convincingly intelligent, knowledgeable, thoughtful and well-spoken.
We seem to be unraveling the archetype and qualifications extremely quickly, but it seems to me that the experience and intelligence requirements went out the window much more readily than the married and (pretends to be) Christian requirements… but my guess is that being married isn’t entirely required any more, either. In fact, I think since sometime this century it’s fallen to mainly whoever one of the two de facto parties chooses, though they still make some effort/pretext to only violate a few aspects of the archetype at a time, and may even choose to do so to add spice/interest and the illusion of open-mindedness.
e.g.
* Obama was male, married, Christian Protestant, experienced, smart, well-spoken, but not white.
* Clinton was white, married, Christian Protestant, experienced, smart, well-spoken, but female.
* Romney was white, male, married, experienced, smart enough for a modern Republican, semi-well-spoken, but Mormon.
* Trump surprised people by breaking a few of those, mainly not seeming to be approved by a big party leadership, but also by being inexperienced, ridiculous, scandalously buffoonish, and self-contradictory and spouting and Tweeting preposterous nonsense, but he is still white, male, married, (fake) Christian Protestant.
There have only ever been two unmarried presidents, long ago. I think it’s not consciously repugnant to most people so much as it just doesn’t match the image / archetype. Of course there would be a lot of BS about no first lady and inquiring into his personal life. If he married his vice president, it would be an absolute media / pop culture frenzy, and as long as they were likable, would probably tend to endear people to them, I expect.