I’m living off of my back up plan right now. I’ve been saving for a rainy day since I can remember, going back to childhood.
In my early 20’s I wound up using up my savings and going into some debt when I wasn’t making much money. The debt never really registered on anything official, because my dad sent me $1k and in the meantime I got a job that paid more. I started saving again.
I got married in my mid 20’s and we always have had savings, at least $10k between us, which when we were first married would have lasted 2.5 months if both of us lost our jobs at the same time. By age 30 we were living on just my husband’s salary, and everything I made was savings and fun. In our mid 30’s we really looked at how much we needed and wanted for retirement. My husband is from a spending family, so this discussion was very helpful to get him even more in the frame of mind of saving for the future, and actually doing some math for it.
My husband was laid off 4 years ago, and since then he has had no income on and off. He did have some severance and then unemployment for some months when he was laid off. For 2 of the 4 years we owned a business that made money, but less than half of his old salary.
Even fairly recently my husband said to me he never thought he would be in this position of having a hard time getting a job in his field, and I just don’t understand how anyone can say that. Especially my husband considering we have many many friends older than us who went through being laid off in their 40’s and 50’s (back about 10–15 years ago) and at least half of them never made it back to the same positions or salaries.
Right now we could probably live off of our savings for several years, assuming nothing drastic changes regarding expenses, inflation, or emergencies, and assuming just paying to live with practically no spending on entertainment and travel, etc., and I’m very grateful I saved all those years. I wish I had more. Several years does not get me to social security or Medicare, and I don’t count on nothing tragic happening. My healthcare deductible is $15k! One major illness and it’s a huge dent.
My husband is looking for a job now, I currently work part-time.