How can he love me if he's cheating?
….we have children and we were supposed to be working on a marriage but for the past 3 months he has been cheating with multiple women. His ex who was supposed to be pregnant like me which was a lie then he was supposed to cut her off but she he keeps talking to her saying he trying to get money out of her because I’m not working but can’t seem to show me a cash app receipt. Then I found FB messages of him telling some female he wasn’t in a relationship. Then he was was talking to some random female talking saying how he was too tired to come over after work the number saved as Bruce and when I called he snatched the phone quickly. Then a week passes it’s more females. His friend had a birthday so I let him use my car to go hang since it was for a few hours he left at 11pm the bar closed at 2:30 I called at 4:15 no answer then I called his friend and seen they were at the strip club. Time passed it was almost 8am before he came home. I checked his phone and found that he was still talking to his ex who faked a pregnancy as nudes of her and all and he was still talking to Bruce and was planning to get a room with a random from work but didn’t…he has been nonchalant all day I’m very upset and I’m pregnant and not working and want my family to work but idk if he does any more he not even talking to me. Idk what to do. HELP!!!!
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Run far, far away from him. He doesn’t respect you, nor any other woman.
I would see if a chapter of Planned Parenthood is nearby. They might be able to help.
I am sorry that your partner does not value you and the relationship.
Here is a good link to assist you in deciding what to do for yourself and your kids.
Keep safety in mind.
Read especially number 10 which explains the “why” this behavior cheating happens.
Quote: ” Are there patterns of behavior where your partner always needs to be admired or desired by others, at any cost?”
This is immature and has an underlying problem from his past.
You cannot change him nor should you accept this man’s disrespect any longer nor from any man in the future either!
Here is a link that may help you somewhat, at least to help you decide to get help from a therapist to figure out WHY you accept this blatant disrespect? You can decide not to stand for this, but get expert help first.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/friendship-20/201802/your-partner-cheated-now-what
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How can he love me if he cheating?”....Because he loves himself and his desires more than anyone else.
A loving relationship is opposite to what you have with your partner.
Your and your children deserve a better husband and father figure. He is teaching by example to his own children that it is OK to cheat and not really Love another.
He has not only cheated you but also his children of a decent loving husband /father.
I hope and pray for a better outcome for you and the children..keep safe.
He don’t. He just tell you that. Find another.
Leave, it’s called self-respect.
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