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lucillelucillelucille's avatar

What would your friends say about you?

Asked by lucillelucillelucille (34325points) October 16th, 2019

What do they most like about you?

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Castle's avatar

I think they would comment on how nice of a guy I am and how dedicated I am in being a father to an awesome little girl. Being a Dad is my absolute number one priority.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@Castle -It’s nice to read that :)

KNOWITALL's avatar

They like my cooking and that I’m generous, and witty/sarcastic, too.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@KNOWITALL – I don’t often get compliments on my cooking. Lol! :)

stanleybmanly's avatar

That I don’t meddle in their affairs, but can be relied on for frank advice when asked. My friends aren’t my friends because they are perfect. I strive mightily to conceal the fact that I care so much about them, and it irritates me somewhat that I’ll probably be worrying about some of them til the wheels fall off.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@stanleybmanly -No. I am completely and utterly charmed by your answer & you can’t stop me. :)

stanleybmanly's avatar

They’re the traits of a loser. Charm be damned!

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@stanleybmanly -Hardly. Sounds like what I call a “watcher”. They do not meddle but are there.
I have a different definitions of a loser.

ucme's avatar

Avoid him like the plague, he “puts out” on first dates.
Little rascals, always telling tales out of school.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@ucme But do call for a second date?

ucme's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille Truth be told, i’d not have a bloody clue how to fix a date, let alone attend one. Been together with the wife 27yrs now & well…y’know.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@ucme- Almost 26 for me and I still have dates with him.
That is a very good thing.

stanleybmanly's avatar

Watching would be fine. But it can be a rather unsettling and cheerless business vesting your emotions and (too often) your resources in the struggles of others.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@stanleybmanly – If it is going to compromise one’s well-being, then one might have to cut them loose.

ucme's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille Oh absolutely, date nights are special, keeps things fresh & new feeling.

What I meant was if by some nightmare I was suddenly single again, like tomorrow, i’d be a lost little puppy.

stanleybmanly's avatar

That’s the trouble. Caring requires that you always run the risk of compromising “one’s well-being”.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@ucme – I think you’d be alright,

stanleybmanly's avatar

Good? Necessary! This being the case, the optimum situation is to operate without a conscience.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@stanleybmanly -:) A sociopath would agree but they’re not what I’d choose to be. Lol!

stanleybmanly's avatar

Even more depressing. To CHOOSE to be losers, and walk around knowing it! How can you bear it?

canidmajor's avatar

I am a paragon of marvelosity, my fabulousness cannot be matched.
And my dog is cute.

stanleybmanly's avatar

And I’m sure the dog agrees!

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@stanleybmanly Which makes me wonder just how self aware is the average person?

canidmajor's avatar

@stanleybmanly, yeah, he knows he’s cute. ;-)

stanleybmanly's avatar

I imagine he also concurs with that marvelosity bit as well. Which is almost certainly why he is not only “man’s best friend”

rebbel's avatar

My mirth.

That’s the word I got when I searched for the translation of the Dutch words my friends would probably say they’d like about me….
Mirth.

tinyfaery's avatar

Everyone seems to think I’m funny even though I don’t think I am. Also, people seem to come to me when they need a straight, no bullshit opinion about something, even if they don’t like what I have to say afterwards.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@tinyfaery -They keep coming back though :)

raum's avatar

Funny.

In reference to both humor
and being the odd one out. :P

gondwanalon's avatar

A funny guy.

Droll humor.

Often uses subtle sarcasm.

Easy going usually.

Low key.

Un assuming.

Can transform into an assertive SOB when provoked.

jca2's avatar

I’m easygoing and I think I’m fun. I’m good to travel with (due to being easygoing and fun, I think).

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