@janbb Hm, free holiday + puppy? Yes. Good.
@Dutchess_III No, you won’t. Part of the reason I read McConnell’s books is that she’s a great writer. Her longer books are lovely.
@MrGrimm888 How could it possibly not hurt to have a tight leash attached to your head and be jerked around by it? Are you doubting that dogs experience pain? You might be interested in some vets’ advice.
“And, as I said, a ‘dog trainer’ will do the same.”
An old-fashioned one will. I’m a dog trainer, and I would never, ever do that. The entire community of progressive dog trainers gets furious when they hear about abusive trainers like you’re describing. We’re the ones who fix their mess.
As a side note, in a world where an insane number of dogs get put down for behavioural issues, claiming that “it works” is not realistic. Never mind ethically problematic. Not everything that ‘works’ is commendable.
“Training animals, unfortunately requires some level of breaking them.”
No. My current dog was trained without intimidation and pain, and he is one of the most chill, responsive, and good-natured dogs I’ve ever seen. Here is a gently trained four-months-old puppy who already knows more than some dogs will learn in their whole life. For those who insist that force-free training only works on some dogs, here are a couple of humanely-trained Belgian Shepherds – one of the most complicated breeds out there.
Everything you can teach using force, you can also teach with reinforcement training. The one exception might be fear. If you want your dog to fear something, pain works. Otherwise, I guarantee that there is a simple and gentle way to teach any desirable behaviour you could come up with.
“Take horses for example. Or elephants. Or humans….”
Horses and elephants do not need to be broken, either. There is a whole different school of thought in animal training these days. The thinking that they need to be forced to learn is testament to humanity’s sad history of violence. That you were hurt as a child is a result of the same. I’m truly sorry. I’m glad you turned into a good guy despite that. And at the same time, I don’t think it gives you the moral right to hurt anybody else – dog, child, or elephant.
When I got my first dog, harnesses were rare. I listened to the trainers, and I did use a collar with her. One horrible day, I was trying to teach her a fast “down” – like this. She was attached to a long line by her neck, and I whistled for her to “down” a fraction of a second before she reached the end of her leash. She was sprinting. When the leash went taut, the force knocked her on her back. I am eternally grateful she wasn’t seriously hurt or even killed that day, because that would have been on me. I wish someone had told me, back then, that there are other ways to teach dogs. And that’s why I’m trying to share the message now.
She never did learn a reliable (fast) down. We had a very trusting relationship despite my mistakes, but when dogs associate training with any sort of negative experiences, they tend to become cautious. My current dog, Wilson, knows that he is always safe. From a place of carefree curiousity, learning is incredibly easy. He figured out how to do an instant “down” within an hour, being rewarded with a rubber ball.