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(NSFW) Would you masturbate in front of your attractive friend of the opposite sex?

Asked by thywater (100points) January 14th, 2020

I know the initial reaction would be a “hell no!”, but let’s think a bit deeper. If she’s doing it for an art project, if your face and body wouldn’t be shown (a blurry close up of your genitals only)? And think of different scenarios – what is you actually liked her? Or simply wanted to sleep with her in general? Or cared for her as a person..? Before blatantly saying no, please consider more and try to put yourself in that position!

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LadyMarissa's avatar

WHY does it matter what I would do??? You obviously WANT to please this girl…so, just go for it!!!

johnpowell's avatar

See, the problem here is you can’t separate yourself from the art project. You are tossing in shit like your face and body being shown. But that is totally irrelevant.

And so, lets say she films you wanking and then you piss her off. Her raw footage isn’t blurred, she probably got your face unblurred with your dick in hand.

Now she is angry and hey.. Wank footage. Hello Twitter.

Go for it.. But you were warned so don’t seek sympathy when this goes horribly wrong. Or maybe you are cool with wanking vids of you floating around. But you mentioned blurred so you seem to care about anonymity. Godspeed, and I look forward to seeing you wank when you forget your 90 day anniversary.

KNOWITALL's avatar

No. With a lover yes, a friend no.

If you choose to, wear a face mask for plausible deniability.

rebbel's avatar

Sure.
Nothing weird about it.
It’s a natural thing, right?
Like sneezing.

cookieman's avatar

Only if I could wear a plush, Winnie the Pooh head and red tee shirt.

What?! It’s just for anonymity sake.

elbanditoroso's avatar

At one point, an old girlfriend and I did just that, for fun. We were in our 40s. Educating and entertaining for both of us.

ucme's avatar

Of course, if she’s cool about it & attractive, I’m going to have no problem getting hard & cuming.
Women just giggle at that shit anyway, make sure there’s enough tissues though.

kritiper's avatar

Sure. If she didn’t mind and was naked…

cookieman's avatar

“ Women just giggle at that shit“

*unless your Louis CK

thywater's avatar

If she asked you why you’d DO it, what would you say? Mind you, this is an attractive good female friend of yours.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Why be easy? Let her pay a model to pose.

Darth_Algar's avatar

As long as she’s willing to pay my usual rate. I don’t work for free.

SEKA's avatar

You might want to be careful. I see nothing wrong with performing for her, but as pointed out above, she might post them on a porn site, or sell them to her friends. There’s nothing meaner than a pissed off woman even when you don’t mean to piss her off. Think about it before you get swept up in her beauty and your desire to bed her. She could easily become your worst nightmare

Demosthenes's avatar

If my opposite sex friend wanted to see me bust a nut, regardless of her art project explanation, I’d assume she was just really horny. And it’d weird me out. D:

mazingerz88's avatar

Only if part of foreplay with that attractive friend and she’s also doing it at the same time.

ragingloli's avatar

Assuming it does not have to be the same species, sure why not.

Kardamom's avatar

For a love interest/partner yes, but not for an art project, and not for someone who is “just a friend”.

ucme's avatar

Imagine painting a bloke jerking off, now that would be a blur!

MrGrimm888's avatar

Hmm. I have hand tattoos, so I wouldn’t. I agree with the girl getting mad scenarios. You could end up in prison.

I would do it for her, with no video. She can do whatever, from memory…

Dutchess_III's avatar

Are you hoping to turn her on or gross her out?

Coolhandluke's avatar

What happened to class?

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Dutchess_III's avatar

This question never had any class. ~

Darth_Algar's avatar

@Coolhandluke

I haven’t had class in over 20 years.

MrGrimm888's avatar

Dutch. There are no stupid questions. From the OP’s details, this was a female, asking for a male, to do it…

So. One could deduce, that it isn’t something that would gross them out… Not a male, forcing the female to watch…

Dutchess_III's avatar

That’s where I’m not clear. Did she ask him to do this? Or is this some fantasy thing? And what art project? “Blurry closeup of the genitals.” What?

thywater's avatar

Its an art project about making a movie about men masturbating for the sake of the project. Haha

Darth_Algar's avatar

So basically she just wants to watch a bunch of dudes get off. There are already websites for that.

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How do you know I haven’t?

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