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lucillelucillelucille's avatar

What is your best personality trait?

Asked by lucillelucillelucille (34325points) February 4th, 2020

Is your mom in agreement with your answer?
Why not? :)

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KNOWITALL's avatar

I make friends anywhere I go. Grocery store, DMV lines, etc….we just click and have a good time.
Yes, mother would agree, I learned from her. My bio dad is quiet and private.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@KNOWITALL My friends have lectured me about talking to strangers. Lol

canidmajor's avatar

Today? Probably none. Kinda crabby and achy.
My mom would probably agree. ;-)

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@canidmajor Crabby can motivate. Always look on the bright side of life

SEKA's avatar

I never meet a stranger and yes mom would agree. She always said that I was just like my dad and he’d talk to anyone about anything for any amount of time. His pleasure for the day was when the phone rang and it was somebody trying to sell him something. Two hours later they were still trying to get off the line. They’d start to hang up and he’d say You mean if I do this that I can get that? which meant another 2 hours of trying to talk him back down. We didn’t see eye to eye but I did admire him

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@SEKA -Too funny! My brother forces those sales people to listen to his drum solos. He told me that they are often still on the line when he’s done!

SEKA's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille I never thought I’d feel sorry for one of those guys, but dad did keep one on the line for 5 hours and that’s when mom told him she needed him to take her to the store just so he’d hang up

Inspired_2write's avatar

Helping others.
I just did this personality test and discovered that I am a Protagonist ENFJ-A

The breakdown came out as the following;

Mind.. Extroverted…54%

Energy.. Intuitive…......76%

Nature.. Feeling…......74%

Tactics…..Judging….....35%

Assertive..Identity…......74%

Highest being Energy/Intuition.Nature/Feeling and Assertive /Identity

Basically I like helping others get ahead in their lives and it makes me happy to be of help to to others as long as it doesn’t drain me.

I found this informative and fun doing it.( plus ordered the PDF 255 page report for more detailed outline.

Link to this 12 min test online :
https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

KNOWITALL's avatar

@Inspired_2write Thanks for sharing, that was fun!

I’m a Logistician, in such company as Angela Merkel. I’m sure everyone would have guessed that for me anyway as we are practical and get the job down. 13% of the population are Logistician’s.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@Inspired_2write -I have taken these tests before but never remember the results. lol
Will do again
Entertainer
ESFP-a
I cannot remember if I got that result before. :)

ucme's avatar

A tie between my sense of humour, warmness & kind heartedness.

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@ucme I think you should take the test in @Inspired_2write‘s link.

ucme's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille Really?
Must I? Done them before & they bore the tits off me :D

ucme's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille Fair enough, seeing as It’s you!

ucme's avatar

Wait stop!!
12 mins!!!
I will never get that time back!

KNOWITALL's avatar

@ucme It took me like 3 minutes. You don’t have to read everything, just answer and go on. Come on ucmeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@ucme -Don’t be afwaid.:)

KNOWITALL's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille He just wants to be known for his looks and humor, not his big brain. haha!

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@KNOWITALL -I wonder what’s taking him so long?
Meanwhile, enjoy this

ucme's avatar

Jesus, leave you girls alone for a minute & all hell breaks loose!
I got my results…

KNOWITALL's avatar

Drum roll…..............

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

Dinner roll….........

ucme's avatar

So I come out as a campaigner, whatever that means lol
ENFP-A

ucme's avatar

Maybe I should run for Pres :D

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@ucme Is this true??
Most ENFPs will exhibit the following strengths with regards to relationships issues:

Good communication skills
Very perceptive about people’s thought and motives
Motivational, inspirational; bring out the best in others
Warmly affectionate and affirming
Fun to be with – lively sense of humor, dramatic, energetic, optimistic
Strive for “win-win” situations
Driven to meet other’s needs
Usually loyal and dedicated

ENFP Weaknesses

Most ENFPs will exhibit the following weaknesses with regards to relationship issues:

Tendency to be smothering
Their enthusiasm may lead them to be unrealistic
Uninterested in dealing with “mundane” matters such as cleaning, paying bills, etc.
Hold onto bad relationships long after they’ve turned bad
Extreme dislike of conflict
Extreme dislike of criticism
Don’t pay attention to their own needs
Constant quest for the perfect relationship may make them change relationships frequently
May become bored easily
Have difficulty scolding or punishing others

ucme's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille I certainly recognise the majority of those strengths. As for the weaknesses, only ones that ring true are I hate conflict & yeah, mundane stuff I have no time for. Haha, it says like cleaning…go figure :D

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@ucme Ha ha! I need to get my hub to take that test.I am sure he will be thrilled to do so.XD

ucme's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille Do it, tell him you played me like a lump of clay & so he has to :D

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

@ucme- I just sent the link and asked to get to know him better. ha hhaaaaa

ucme's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille The stranger in your bedroom :D

KNOWITALL's avatar

@lucillelucillelucille I can see a lot of that in @ucme. I bet the kids always knew he was the softie parent haha!

ucme's avatar

@KNOWITALL Hey, I used to ground their teddy bears…how’s that for toughness? :D

KNOWITALL's avatar

@ucme Ohhh, scary. I can imagine you saying “It’s okay love, we’ll just do better tomorrow.”

SEKA's avatar

OMG, I leave you guys alone for a few hours and everyone falls into the silliness machine. Was Willy Wonka gobsmacking everyone?

ucme's avatar

@SEKA He was handing out his everlasting gobstoppers, you should try one :D

RedDeerGuy1's avatar

Your personality type is:
Mediator
INFP-T

Mind
This trait determines how we interact with our environment.
43% 57% EXTRAVERTED INTROVERTED

Energy
This trait shows where we direct our mental energy.
77% 23% INTUITIVE OBSERVANT

Nature
This trait determines how we make decisions and cope with emotions.
21% 79% THINKING FEELING

Tactics
This trait reflects our approach to work, planning and decision-making.
42% 58% JUDGING PROSPECTING

Identity
This trait underpins all others, showing how confident we are in our abilities and decisions.
28% 72% ASSERTIVE TURBULENT

KNOWITALL's avatar

@RedDeer Is that yours?

KNOWITALL's avatar

@RedDeer If yours is as accurate as mine, I can totally see you fitting that! Have you ever explored making art?

RedDeerGuy1's avatar

@KNOWITALL Yes. I love hand weaving. I spent two years making a two foot by two foot weaving mini-blanket in grade five and six with all my spare time. My dad has it now. Was fun.
I will look into making a larger one in the future

KNOWITALL's avatar

@RedDeer Maybe you’re a Picasso and don’t know it? Try everything! You are kind. It’s very noticeable here and I appreciate that about you. : )

Dutchess_III's avatar

Well. I don’t know if it’s my best trait, but my Mom said it so must be right. She was visiting from the Pacific Northwest and I overheard my hubs complaining to her that “Val thinks she’s always right.”
Mom said “Well, she usually is.”
I almost fell down!!

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