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What does this mean?

Asked by IdkINeedHalp (12points) March 1st, 2020

So for context, I met this guy on holiday in another country, he has a girlfriend but she’s in his home country in England. We were really good friends, we’d hang out and do things together. Sometimes when he got drunk he’d get a little flirty but not overly. Then I went back to America and he was still on holiday in Thailand. The night I got back I went out with friends and had some drinks. He was texting me saying how he had so much to do at his work and stuff (he was working in Thailand as well) and said he was just going to get drunk. So he did.

Later that night when I went home (drunk also) we started texting again and then he asked for pictures and you can guess the rest. This has happened twice now, where we’ve gotten drunk or tipsy and I’ve sent photos and videos. He doesn’t like to send anything which I get, but he texts me dirty talk and stuff and how he wishes I were there with him to etc etc.

What the heck does this mean? Is he just missing his girlfriend or is it something else? I asked him and he said his girlfriend doesn’t want to send him anything so idk. I’m just a bit confused about the whole thing and I feel bad for his girl. Yeah, I know I’m a bad person. Every time I say it will never happen again but then it does.

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janbb's avatar

Don’t drink and text.

RedDeerGuy1's avatar

Maybe his GF doesn’t exist, and he made her up?

SEKA's avatar

He’s using you for his sick jollies. You really shouldn’t be sending him pics especially since he’s never too drunk to refuse to send any to you. You might find yourself on a porn site just waiting for the whole world to see. @RedDeerGuy1 may have nailed it. He probably doesn’t have a girlfriend and only uses her to his advantage if you ever start to get too serious. If he does have a gf, I bet she’s receiving texts every night telling her how much he misses her & how much he loves her & how he can’t wait to get home to her so they can finally get married. Always remember, if he’ll cheat on her, he’ll definitely cheat on you

lucillelucillelucille's avatar

It means he’s using you.

LadyMarissa's avatar

Oh Sweetie, it means that you’re an easy, cheap thrill for a pervert!!!

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