I get angry at how society handles and deals with the subject of rape. I do not want to make this rant insanely long so I will use bullet points.
1) I think that it should be talked about more during High school sex ed, we were taught to watch our drinks and that is it. Most times it is someone you know; a parent, boyfriend, friend. that should be discussed and it should be made clear that it happens to both men and women, at any age, regardless of relationship with offender.
2) I think a lot of people are scared to come forward because they don’t know what will happen. Having a police officer come in and talk about what to expect when making a report, and having a SANE (Sexual assault Nurse examiner) come in and explain how the kits are done should help because people will know what to expect on that side of things.
3) Lots of people are also scared because they think they have to do it alone. Having a victim advocate from either the DAs office or a womens shelter come in and talk about how they can have an advocate with them when reporting, and how they don’t need to do any of it alone may help on that side.
I think having this stuff taught in high school would help because that’s the time people tend to go out and party, get boyfriend/girlfriends, and experiment with various things.It also helps them if something happens when they are older.
I don’t know why this topic isn’t talked about more. I know there is/was a lot of controversy surrounding the Metoo movement, and some of it had to do with people thinking it was wrong to speak out and talk about experiences with sexual assault/rape. It shouldn’t be a bad thing.
It’s an uncomfortable topic. Rape and sexual assault are one of the most under-reported crimes and more people experience it than anybody realizes.
More attention needs to be brought to the crime, and educating people on what happens once you report may help. I personally was really scared because I had no idea what would happen. I also had no idea about all the resources out there. It is important to know.
There are also a ton of problems with how the legal system handles it but that is a whole other thing. That needs to be fixed as well.