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Boyfriend licking my feet?

Asked by Toni_BVC (10points) September 30th, 2020

I’m 25 and for a while now my 46-year-old boyfriend has been asking me to let him lick/suck on my feet. When I ask him why he says it’s because I have sexy feet. Though I tend to walk around barefooted often at home and my feet tend to get rather dirty from wearing sneaker shoes without socks on. I don’t like it much and feel very awkward when he does it. Often in the mornings he tells me he’ll let me stay home and take a leave from work if I let him lick my feet, and since I tend to get very bad migraines in the mornings then I usually don’t object.

Though recently I noticed he has been waiting until his mom leaves for work before asking/telling me. Is this weird? Any advice? And just so you know, he is in complete denial of his anger problems, I doubt he would be anything less than in denial of any kind of problems.

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gorillapaws's avatar

Lots of people have their “kinks.” The important thing is that you are open and honest about your feelings. If him being really into your feet bothers you, you should probably look for a new boyfriend, because I doubt that will change over time. The anger problem seems to be the bigger problem, also living with mom at 46 is certainly a bit unusual.

Good luck and be safe.

Dutchess_III's avatar

You’re dating a guy who is old enough to be your father, who waits until his Mom leaves home to ask to suck your feet? And he’ll give you time off of work if you let him. And the fact that you don’t like it doesn’t matter to him? I see warning flags all over the place. Is he your boss?

zenvelo's avatar

His kink is not at all uncommon, but as @Dutchess_III points oout, you have a lot more to be concerned about this relationship.

If your boyfriend’s Mum is able to go to work, then his living with his mother isn’t to care for her, and is a lot worrisome.

Dutchess_III's avatar

AND I think it’s her boss. ”Often in the mornings he tells me he’ll let me stay home and take a leave from work” Not good.

KNOWITALL's avatar

I was intetested in the foot fetish and ready to reply, lay back and enjoy. Now I’m not so sure haha!

chyna's avatar

Where did the anger come in? That seems out of left field.

jca2's avatar

He’s your boss, he’s 46 and he lives his mommy? Three problems right there. Him having a foot fetish is not uncommon. I suspect more have it then will admit it.

I used to work with a guy who was into ladies’ feet. He’d go to Macy’s on his lunch hour and lurk in the shoe department to check out the ladies trying on shoes.

Dutchess_III's avatar

It would really bother me if my boyfriend knew I didn’t like something, but he did it anyway.

I wonder what the story is behind foot fetishes @jca2?

gorillapaws's avatar

@Dutchess_III “I wonder what the story is behind foot fetishes”

I’ve never really understood this one myself. That said, I do think women’s necks/upper-backs/shoulders are sexy. I can’t say I’ve ever wanted to spend hours licking on them though.

Brian1946's avatar

In addition to the some of the advice above, I suggest that you REFUSE to make out with him after your foot job.

Or, coat your tootsies with rufi juice before the FJ, and it’ll be quite awhile before bothers you again. x_ x

Brian1946's avatar

^^…he bothers….

Brian1946's avatar

Is your sole mate’s name either Eric or Don, Jr.? ;-0

Dutchess_III's avatar

MY DOG IS LICKING MY FEET!!!

Nomore_lockout's avatar

I always thought that barefoot look was sexy on a woman, but foot licking? Uh, no. You folks have a real knack for making me lose my supper with some of these posts.

Dutchess_III's avatar

So don’t read them. And BTW, I think the OP is a one hit wonder.

Nomore_lockout's avatar

Methinks you are correct Ms. Dutch.

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