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Why do some men/women get obsessed about a person they like?
What is the psychology behind for example, a man in this case getting obsessed to the point they want to know what outfit is the woman wearing, take pictures of her outfits and send them to him , take pictures of her without she finding out, wanting to know everything she does, what gym she goes to, wanting anxiously to see her the next day in their jobs etc, is this part of Idealization ?
Or does this goes deeper than this?
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