I feel like I have a 50/50 shot of getting a severe case, and I think I have an 80% chance of pulling through. Not great odds, but not horrific. I’m only 52, but I have the genes for getting blood clots, I have “benign” electrical and structural problems with my heart, I have high cholesterol, intermittent high blood pressure, and some kidney damage from a medication I took a year ago.
I do fear that once in the hospital, if I was hospitalized, they might harm or kill me by screwing something up. Not paying attention to what I have written down to watch for when treating me, or not pay attention to or believing my drug allergies. Often times hospitals don’t give you your thyroid meds and that would send my BP way up and my heart rate way down after a few days.
A friend of mine was borderline hospital material and her doctor gave her various medications saying he wanted to keep her put of the hospital if possible. She got through it at home. She had pre-existing asthma and she is quite a bit overweight.
If I was mildly sick I probably wouldn’t run to get a test. I would live in the guest room for sure trying to protect my husband, but the air system I guess makes it difficult, plus he will have been exposed during the incubation period. I would be in the guest room if I was sick with anything. When I have a cold I park myself in the guest room, and if I have to use the kitchen I wash my hands before touching anything. I wouldn’t even risk touching anything my husband might touch if I might have covid. I kind of wish I could go to a covid motel or I guess he could go to a hotel. Is it safer though for him to go to a hotel? Three people I know their spouse never caught it. Most people I know the spouse did catch it.
What might motivate me to get a covid test is if I had been near any friends or out at any stores, I would want to warn people. I am only around a few people, we are overall very careful keeping a distance and wearing masks, and I would call them if I was sick with anything anyway if I had seen them in the ten days before I got sick.
I would definitely go to the hospital if I was having trouble breathing. I would not just die at home. I do wonder if hospitals are keeping people when maybe not necessary, but the risk is too great to let my mind wander like that. The facebook posts I have seen from people who are hospitalized or were hospitalized where I live all say they were happy with their care even though the hospitals where I live often get luke warm reviews.
I don’t have a good GP, so that sucks. This is one time that I really wish I did.
There are old people in nursing homes who barely have symptoms, you never know what your symptoms will be. The majority of people get though it ok, even the people in very high risk groups. I’m not trying to down play it, the risk is much higher for older people with underlying conditions, but the media makes it sound like if you are older and have underlying conditions you are definitely doomed, and that is not the case, so try not to panic.
I keep plenty of TP and paper towels. I usually have 4–8 weeks worth. I have an extra two bottles of rubbing alcohol and extra refill bottles, one each) of liquid dish and hand soap. I have enough food for about ten days right now before having to live on “bread and water” which I guess would get me to three weeks in an unusually dire and rare circumstance. I can get delivery if I need it. I think it is prudent to have three weeks worth of food though, I should have more pantry items. I don’t stress out about not being able to get food. I don’t feel like all food will disappear, I think maybe some of my favorite foods might be hard to get now and then, but I am not going to be picky if I am just trying to get through a few weeks. My husband recently lost a lot of weight and that troubles me.
My husband objectively should have very little chance of getting severely ill, but he lost a ton of weight several months ago and I think if he got very sick it makes him more likely to die. It really pisses me off that he is being so extreme right now with his diet. That does worry me.