When I'm on a tablet, how can I make it show me regular fluther.com and not i.fluther?

You can scroll down at the bottom of the page. There is the Mobile/Desktop choice. Just choose Desktop.

Also, if you’re on your phone and you switch it to desktop it activates certain functions like listing names when you type @...
Also you can use the little orange doodad to copy the link to someone’s comment.
You can also flag posts.

That works. Thank you.

I didn’t know there was anything to scroll down for. I’m not very good at this, I’m afraid. I still view computers as alien beings deserving of suspicion and mistrust, so we have kind of a tense relationship.

LOL!