The concept of white privilege is one thing and real, but the term white privilege definitely can be counterproductive in my opinion. Like all terms people perceive and interpret it from their POV.
Recognizing being white makes moving through life easier in general is something that we should all be aware of. The problem is when white privilege gets broadened into white guilt, I don’t think white people should feel guilt about the past. Guilt about slavery and segregation? That was before my time and I was not involved in it. I believe we should judge people based on them as individuals, which means not judging them on their ancestors. I do think that favoring minority candidates for jobs is justified in some circumstances even today, definitely in the past, to help make things right after years of discrimination.
I think it is important to raise people’s awareness of the inequities in society, because as we become more aware of society and ourselves, we can correct where we have been prejudiced and unfair.
I agree that socio-economics is the biggest divide in the country. This not only goes to money, but also to conforming and Xenophobia. America has shown that we will elect a Black president. That does not mean racism is gone, but it does mean if you have a Harvard degree, speak standard English with a middle of the road accent, wear a nice suit and are well groomed, that you can fit in with the upper classes. In fact, I would argue it is more about social class and conforming than race or ethnicity. We can’t even say Obama spoke well, because that is supposedly offensive, when we can say it about white people. People twist race discussions into pretzels.
Martin Luther King, Jr. spoke to poverty, about all people, and I think he was right. The poor white people in Appalachia are in dire straights just as Black people are who are poor. The thing is over time there has been much more working against Black people to get out of poverty, but all poor people are at a disadvantage.
I was told by my parents and grandparents to be wary of policemen. I was taught to put my hands where they can be seen. I don’t doubt for one second that Black people are harassed more than white people and killed more often by police, but the current narrative that tries to make it sound like only Black people are abused by the police is not helpful in my opinion, because it gives racist people opportunity to show video of a cop killing a white person unjustly and then makes it easier for white people not to listen. The narrative should be accurate that it happens more to Black people, and should be a major focus of police brutality.
@Strauss I really don’t understand the mortgage thing. I have heard it before. I absolutely believe redlining happened in the past, but now, what I wonder is when they release stats on Black people paying more interest or being denied a mortgage is that comparing apples to apples? White people with the same income, same credit, buying in the same neighborhood? I am just wondering if the real problem is the system against the poor rather than race, although I completely acknowledge the system working against people of color creates the income disparity.
When I change the position of my pocketbook when a black man comes near me, what he does not realize is I change it when any man, hell any stranger male or female, comes near me if it previously was in a position that made it easy to grab.
@canidmajor Not challenging you here, just curious, have you seen actual statistics or some sort of show maybe that demonstrated that about Macy’s? I worked in retail for years, and I did not experience this. We are taught in retail that the majority of theft is done by middle aged white women. When I worked in retail I did call security to watch Black men who came in pairs or even larger groups wearing baggy clothing and who did not stick together, but rather kind of fanned out. I also called security when they were white, Hispanic, girls, boys, women and men, it didn’t matter. Back then Black people were more likely to wear baggy clothing, that was their style where I was living, so maybe they were watched more, but I didn’t see them getting arrested more. All about the clothing and the behavior. You said they were dressed the same, so that is why I am very interested in what you wrote. People don’t get arrested unless they stole something. Being watched, security constantly watches lots of people in a store and so are all the employees watching. People shove items under their babies in their baby carriages.
I once saw an Oprah episode where this white guy went out on a street to see how he was treated, and then the same guy did make-up to look Black and the audience got to see the difference in how strangers treated him, BUT he was dressed completely differently too, so I think the little experiment was not a fair portrayal of what really happens. Not that anyone should be treated badly, I am just saying dressing differently changes the dynamic also, and I think it changes it even more than skin color.