Can someone please help me understand this? I'm a white male, but for some reason I can only find people who are Asian, or look Asian attractive.

Go with it. It’s ok.

As a guy friend told me, you like what you like.

The technical term is Asian persuasion.

Most men do, it’s not rare.

…Men of all races (with one notable exception) prefer Asian women.

https://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women

Only you can sort out if you are fetishizing or if you have a genuine sociocultural/sexual interest. Based on your details and tags, it seems possible that pornography and fantization during masturbation has played a role. Have you dated Asian women, or is this all fantasy?

@Cupcake GQ. I feel like many are stuck in the ‘Asians are subservient and sweet’ mental thing and that’s not always true.

If you (the male) are Jewish, this is a well known phenomenon:

https://www.timesofisrael.com/with-jew-asian-marriages-on-the-rise-academic-couple-takes-on-subject-close-to-home/

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12397-012-9078-y

https://forward.com/life/132080/the-social-network-on-the-lore-of-jewish-men-and-a/

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/whats-with-the-jewish-man_b_772400

I like only women/girls. Same thing.

Your preferences may change as you mature and develop different interests. Right now, it looks like you like anime. Maybe you like it because it’s Asian, or maybe you prefer Asian females because you like anime.

We begin by coveting what we see every day…And don’t your eyes move over the things you want?

- Hannibal Lector

Dial back the porn hub and hentai. Guessing your obsession will mellow the more you interact with real people around you.

I was thinking that it’s just a reference and it’s ok. But then I saw “masturbation”, and realized the OP has an anime profile picture.

You may have watched too many anime. Maybe start by stopping watching anime and go outside to interact with real people?

Whatever flips your lid. But I always had the attitude that a woman is a woman. I never gave a flip about their race. But I suppose if you have a preference for Asian women, try to find an Asian girlfriend. Just treat her well and if she decides to leave you, don’t wig out on her. Life sucks and then you die.

@Nomore I highly suspect the OP is thinking of anime girls instead of actual Asian girls. Anime girls and Asian girls are very different things, especially when many anime girls are designed to be dependent on men. That’s what I’m worried about. He may not take rejection very well if he insists on his anime vision.

Okayyyy… hope gets to feeling better ; )

@Mimishu1995 I just hope that if things play out for the OP, and I hope they do, that he won’t go nuts and get abusive IF she wants to leave. I always had a short fuse for men like that. We all get dumped from time to time, just man up and suck it up. I can think of worse things than getting dumped by a woman.

@Mimishu_1995 makes some very good points.
However, I can understand how an attraction could be there.

Things can, and usually do change.

More importantly, make sure you switch hands regularly to avoid carpo tunnel syndrome.

Switching to backhand would probably help with carpal tunnel too.

If you’re not feeling confident with your non-dominant hand. :P