Is there a real narcissist who could tell me why my boyfriend is doing the things he does like silent treatments and small insults?

It kinda sounds like he wishes you were someone else.
Or he wants to fully live his life the way he wants without your input.

He doesn’t sound like a narciscissist, but he does sound like an asshole.

Ditto @Caravanfan Dump him while you can. You deserve better.

DTMFA. You are not shit, but he treats you like shit. Tell him to go fuck himself ‘cuz he ain’t going to fucking you any more.

He treats you badly because you let him. Don’t take his abuse. Leave his ass.

This is emotional abuse. Don’t be surprised if he starts physical violence next. It’s like a serial killer who starts out burning ants with a magnifying glass, moves on to killing puppies and then ends up eating people. Get the fuck away from this guy.

I am not a narcissist. You guy is a bully.

People who aren’t open to constructive critcism are usually not open to growing. He just sounds immature and sulky to me.
Why stay with him if he acts like a mean little brat? Loading a dishwasher is easy, imagine him as a life partner or parent, sister. No bueno.

Not enough details to make a determination. We are hearing one side of this thing. We don’t know what led up to these reactions. We don’t know really anything except what you have told us which was presented in such a way to paint him in the worst light possible. It SOUNDS like he is immature. But then, it could be that you are the problem and don’t want to hear that. Based on what you gave us it is impossible to give a reasonable assessment.

Everyone has given good advice, and I don’t think I need to add anything.

But I just need to point out: why are you asking for a narcissist’s opinion? You really think a narcissist will tell you the truth and help you? And getting a narcissist to get back to your boyfriend, even when he is being abusive, is just disturbing.

All the narcissists I know would not admit they are a narcissist. It sounds like your boy
”friend” is beyond help. The biggest question is, why are you still there?

@snowberry yeah. At first I was thinking the guy was horrible, but then I read the details a bit more and I started to wonder why she needs a narcissist…

I believe he is categorized as a homo sapient assholian.

He’s a baby. Leave him.

You deserve better. Don’t waste another day of your life with him. He doesn’t deserve you.

Give him the boot!!! He’s bad news!!!

You deserve so much better. Stonewalling is emotional abuse.