@Jeruba What a thoughtful set of questions, especially in reply to a reply to a question about trollish use of emoticons on Face-book!
”Not to quibble, @Zaku, just wondering, because you are usually pretty careful with your language, and I’m not into FB culture at all: is there no longer a distinction to be made between disagreement and disapproval?”
– In thoughtful conversation, certainly there is a distinction.
– Sometimes that even happens on Face-book, though not generally in the numerous low exchanges between people with very different sets of ideas about US politics.
– The context here though is about the reaction icons that FB offers on every post, like GA’s on Fluther. FB used to only have Like. Now it has Like, Love, Care, Haha, Wow, Sad, and Angry, but no Dislike, Disagree, or Disapprove.
– Many other sites (e.g. Reddit, Imgur, Stack Exchange, Quora) offer Upvote and Downvote, and people, particularly (as mentioned in the title, US “Conservatives” seeing posts they are against) on political posts, often have an impulse to want to vote up or down. FB doesn’t have anything that is clearly a “downvote”. Particularly on a political post, “Angry” can very often be interpreted either as “I am angry about this post, because I disagree” OR as “I am angry because I am moved to anger by the issue this comment mentions!”
– So some people have noticed that “Haha” in response to a serious post gets around FB’s attempt to not provide disagreement. And as OP suggests, I have absolutely seen this very often used by conservative troll/bully types, to try to ridicule and discredit when people who care about some issue post a view they disagree with. (e.g. The homeless people are freezing in our community – we should really let them sleep in a public building.”)
– The reason I used the word “disapproval” in my reply above, was because it felt more appropriate for the type of reaction I feel they are having. Disagreement implies more thought than I think is typically going on in those cases, though clearly they also would like to say they are disagreeing.
“And what does it mean when derision is the only way to express either one?”
– I think it means FB was trying to control the available types of reactions that could be easily expressed in a way that the site would quantify and show that way. Perhaps slightly like Fluther (but evil), they thought limiting reaction counts to non-negative channels would tend to encourage participation and positive feelings toward using FB. I think it’s partly an attempt to avoid negativity. FB tries to encourage use of FB, and part of that is focusing attention on things other people react to, and those reaction icons, and replies, are used to choose which posts to show to whom by their nefarious and nebulous algorithms.
– But yes, there is of course a lot more going on there than what FB intended. There are many very toxic and dysfunctional conversations and forums on FB. Where I’ve seen the type of use the OP refers to, the people doing it will either only click Haha, or they will spew aggressive troll comments that make zero effort to understand or engage in anything other than bullying, hatred, threats, insults, etc.
“If people didn’t know how to disagree in a civilized fashion, they used to get annoyed or indignant when someone differed with them; although there always used to be a few who strove to listen better and think for themselves. Now, in this time of packaged and color-coded opinions, it seems to lead straight to being ”offended,” which of course entitles them in turn to some sort of reparation, from demanding apologies of the other all the way to monetizing it with a lawsuit.”
“I feel like we are being reduced to a coarseness that leads to a dissolution of culture. Is this the consequence of laugh tracks, simplistic thumb gestures, and Hallmark sentiments about your specialness, or is it just an epidemic of entitled narcissism that grants full status and respect only to opinons of one’s own and one’s anointed deities?”
– I think it’s what it looks like to be in a country or community that has fractured into opposing factions with their own world views, like other places in the world where there have been religious wars and/or cultural intolerance.