Thanks to all who answered.
I focus on my state, and more specifically the counties where I live. I barely look at what is going on in other states, except when I anticipate a lot of people coming to my state, which is almost any time school is on a break (Thanksgiving, Christmas, Presidents’ Day, Spring Breaks, Summer) and actually no matter what is happening in other states, those holidays will create our next wave when people come here, mingle, and won’t isolate if they are mildly ill. They just paid for a vacation after all.
I don’t wait for the news to tell me cases are up, I anticipate when they will go up, because it’s exponential. Presidents’ Day weekend won’t have huge numbers, that’s just seeding covid19, it will be really noticeable two weeks after. That’s my guess.
I pull back and wear more masks during those holiday times and usually it last two weeks after the holidays until cases start coming down again.
Mostly, I stay in my pod for very close contact. Otherwise, I try to distance, be outside, wear a mask, etc. It’s done imperfectly, but hoping I hit it right if covid is near me.
When I decide to take a risk, like visiting my inlaws, I just do it. I stifle my concern about covid and take the risk. I’d like to start using tests to make that safer, but it’s difficult in the US.
Yesterday, I took way more risk than usual with someone visiting, hopefully he didn’t have covid, and hopefully I don’t now. I will be thinking about it for the next 4 days until I feel in the clear. I wore a mask when we were in the car. He got too close too often and my impression he takes zero precautions. He had covid in the very beginning, I know he was holding off getting vaccinated, I don’t know if he did. I know his antibody count was going down and down, because he was donating. The woman he was with had covid two months ago.
I didn’t lose any friends, but I stopped seeing one, because she completely denies there is any risk of covid and behaves like it doesn’t exist. I have run into her, and I just distance when she’s around. She does respect the distance.
I rarely eat at a restaurant. It’s probably going to total to 6 or 8 times a year. Additionally, I do take-out now and then. I used to eat out 2–3 times a week.