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Should I send this this video to my LDR GF?

Asked by erebus9 (179points) March 15th, 2022

My LDR GF is… well depressed, like to the point of her cutting herself. Her mother is saying that she is worthless that she will not be loved.
So I have decided to make a video for her, But want to know if it is good to send. the script is below.
If you are watching this it is because you are feeling broke, unwanted, even unloved, and unneeded.
(pause for a second)
But I am here now to tell you that you are not broken, that I love you (look straight into camera) I need you.
You have become a light in my life. when I feel stuck, feel sad or stuck, even when I start to feel depressed you help me feel better. You are the light at the end of the tunnel when I feel like the sadness will never end.
(pause a second)
And I want to be that for you, I want you to feel as happy as you have made me feel. I want you to feel the joy that you have brought to my life, because anybody who can do that does not deserve to feel sadness, or pain.
(pause a second)
Well I have not done this before, so I do not know if this helps. But I hope it does.
I love you, and I mean it too, I love you.
Feel better stay safe, bye.

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6 Answers

LadyMarissa's avatar

In all honesty, I’m doubtful that it will help…at the same time, I see it as you have nothing to lose either…UNLESS you don’t really love her & are just saying it to make her feel better!!!

She really needs some professional help & not just you trying to make her feel better!!!

Any chance you can Zoom (or whatever you use) with her so you can see her immediate reaction in real time??? That way you can better judge how effective your words are and be able to tell when she’s growing agitated. I find your words & thoughts to be sweet, kind, & considerate…then again, I don’t cut when I get upset & she might respond in a completely different manner!!!

Inspired_2write's avatar

I would be careful as her mother may be watching it and give her more grief?

LadyMarissa's avatar

^^ I didn’t think about that one as I don’t think that way either!!!

chyna's avatar

What does LDR stand for?

Tropical_Willie's avatar

Long Distance Relationship

Samantha4One's avatar

Well, what she needs most right now is you. Your presence itself will ignite a new spark in her. You should visit her asap if possible rather than sending any video.

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