I live in NY. I like NY, there are a lot of things I love about the area I live in. There are some things I don’t like about the area I live in. I love that it’s fairly rural with lakes and horses, and it’s an area that used to be a vacation spot, so it’s really like being on vacation in the summer. People come from the city on weekends to visit the area I live in, because it’s fun in summer and fall with the lakes and orchards. I like that I can get to NYC within about an hour and a half, to the heart of downtown. I like that i can get to Cape Cod, Newport or Boston within 2 or 3 hours. I live about 10 minutes from CT so I have access to CT stuff, and the Hudson Valley is right here, too, so I have good proximity to good stuff.
What I don’t like about the area I live in is that there’s a road about two miles away, and they’re currently building some big stores on it, which some people think is great because it’s going to help our taxes. I am one who doesn’t think it’s great, because it’s going to bring traffic, accidents, crime and people to that area. If I were still working, it would lengthen my commute because they’re going to have to put in a traffic light where there is not one now, and more people are going to be on the local roads. The other thing that I don’t like about NY is that the winters can be unpredictable and can suck. This winter wasn’t the worst but we’ve had hurricanes and tornadoes and power outages and ice storms and all that fun.
Politically, NY tends to be Democratic but people will tell you, accurately, that NYC and places where residents from NYC make their second homes will be Dem but the rest of the state tends to be Republican.
A lot of people complain about the high taxes in NY. We have high taxes but we have a lot of services.
I was in south Florida recently, and the weather was incredible. It was a great week (friends can see my pix on FB). It was a beautiful spot. Beaches in Florida are gorgeous. Parts of Florida are skanky, and I don’t like the politics in FL (i.e. DeSantis). Also the summers would be hard to tolerate. I’ve been there in summer and it was unbearable. Even as far north as VA, summers can be hard to tolerate (for me). Prices are going up on Florida real estate, because it has a reputation for being c heaper and because a lot of people like their weather.
I used to live in northern CA, and it was so beautiful. Supposedly there are high taxes in CA.
I have an aunt that lives in Las Vegas. Las Vegas is like an adult playground. Nevada is beautiful but there is a seedy element in LV.
Bottom line, no place is perfect. There are advantages and disadvantages no matter where you live.