What do you think? Was I wrong?
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March 24th, 2022
My bf comes home from work at all different times. He wanted me to make London broil and have it ready for when he got home from work. I texted his boss and his co-worker attempting to find out when he would be home. No answers. I didn’t want him to have to microwave it. That would destroy the texture and flavor. Well, he flipped out calling me lazy and a few choice words. He also spit on me. I did cook dinner and serve it to him as well as dessert. He has been mean to me all night. What do you think?
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Direct him to the exit of your residence.
He has an issue.. Don’t waste anymore time on him. You deserve so much more.
To quote Dan Savage, DTMFA (dump the mother fucker already).
Spitting on you is an irredeemable offense. I would say dump him based on everything else, but spitting is so beyond, I would throw him out of the house immediately.
Inexcusable behavior. I’d break up with him. He’s going to do it again.
He can only do this because YOU allow it! Why is he still around?
His actions make me worry that he will gradually turn into a physical abuser/murderer. It always begins with “minor” temper tantrums, and his actions were abusive. Get out now before it becomes much more difficult.
If you try to break up with him, he’ll probably beg for forgiveness and cry. Expect it.
Dump him like yesterday’s garbage.
Just to add, I wouldn’t text a third party, asking about a second party, unless by chance it was a personal friend. If two of my friends were out together, I would consider texting one to ask the other to look at her phone or to ask them when they might finish up, but with a business relationship (boss or coworker), I wouldn’t text to ask what you did.
In no way am I saying what he did is justified, as I explained above. I’m just saying I wouldn’t text or call a third party when the third party is a boss or coworker.
Tell him not to let the door hit him in the ass on his way out. What an anus cavity.
It’s only going to get worse
If he’s spitting now, he will begin hitting soon
I know you’re wasting your time asking him to leave. So, start making arrangements for “you” to leave and don’t bother to look back
I realize that all this is easier said than done, but you really need to start thinking about leaving or you could end up dead
Simplier to ask him to call before he gets home, however it sounds like he is a controller and you are platcating his demands.
Its a beginning of an abusive relationship.
If he has a trigger temper, do not try to talk to him about it but plan your escape to a safer place..he is not the right partner for you .
note: no one here would accept his behaviour.
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Note: pf course we do not know your culture and limits on your freedom, so get a porfessional counsellor for yourlself in order to seek safety.
Sounds to me like he’s treating you like a slave if he does that to you. My grampa would expect you to jump when he calls you even when you are busy. break up with him if he’s acting like a controller and treating you like crap because you couldn’t get his food ready by the time you got home. Dump him.
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This guy is an abusive asshole. Ditch him immediately.
@Neenee Please update us on how things are. We care.
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Screw the guy, If he wants to treat you that way then he has no reason being in your life. He can go to hell.
If he spits on you why are you friends? To him what is most important friendship or his food ready when he gets home? If it is option two then he is a little screw guy that you don’t deserve.
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