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DeLorean24's avatar

As a female cashier, what do you do when a male customer is always staring and winking at you?

Asked by DeLorean24 (317points) March 24th, 2022

As a female cashier, a male customer always comes to your register to pay for his stuff, and always stares at you. Occasionally winks his eye at you when he leaves. This has been going on everytime he sees you. How do you feel? How uncomfortable or comfortable does that make you?

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Dutchess_III's avatar

I was used to it. I ignored them. I would not make eye contact.

JLoon's avatar

Not a cashier.

But I am a sometime bartender, and I already kind of answered this on similar question you posted last week:
https://i.fluther.com/230958/what-do-you-do-with-a-customer-that-wont-give-up/

So… you’re not hitting on me, are you?

SEKA's avatar

Ignore, ignore, ignore. Then if he doesn’t stop, ignore even harder or ask him to stop

Is your friend still at it? Or, is it you?

DeLorean24's avatar

@JLoon: This is a little different. He’s using his body language rather than his mouth.

JLoon's avatar

@DeLorean24 – Oh. So it’s for science.

Based on extensive personal research and observation, it’s usually annoying and a little creepy.

I’m just trying to work ya know.

janbb's avatar

I wouldn’t be happy with them doing that.

chyna's avatar

If it’s you this is happening to, ignore it. If your friend is telling you this is happening to them, are you sure that this is really happening or is the friend just trying to make you jealous?

janbb's avatar

^^ Or are you “the friend”?

SEKA's avatar

@DeLorean24 It’s just as easy to ignore body language as it is mouth. Most of those clowns just want attention Don’t give it to them and they’ll find another victim

janbb's avatar

^^ I think he’s the guy in this scenario.

Chestnut's avatar

Be flattered a guy thinks you’re cute.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Oh cheese it’s.

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