@Blackberry That’s interesting! 1965, during the Civil Rights upheaval and plenty of people still alive were participating discrimination and still plenty of violence too. Now, the term seems to be used to either feel guilty about one’s ancestors or feel guilty about just being born white.
The thing is, I have never agreed with the term guilt, I don’t feel it, why would I use it? What did I do? I feel sadness about the history and empathy, and I want things to get better.
I do agree there are still systemic problems in our country. I acknowledge I pass as “white” which has probably made my life easier, and also that I had college educated English speaking parents made certain things better. I guess I’m saying I see where I had some privilege, but honestly I hate that word.
A German jelly told me people in Germany don’t feel guilt about what the Nazis did to the Jewish people rather the German people feel a responsbility that it doesn’t happen again and to work at treating everyone equally. That makes more sense to me. My friend who lives in Germany says the German government does go out of its way for Jews in some respects to try to right the wrong.
I think sometimes when there is too much of a push, we wind up with a backlash that is counterproductive. People tune out from overload or feel unheard themselves.
I’m very interested in Black history the last 15 years, but what I really enjoy learning about is all of the amazing Black Americans in history and now. Like the Hidden Figures women, and our Black airmen during the war, and successful Black entrepreneurs, and so on. I think let’s normalize that Black people are just as smart and successful as any other group, and at the same time make sure we fix the system to have more equal opportunity. I think this regarding women too.
I worry that Black people are being taught to feel badly about themselves instead of pride in their people. There was a book written about successful groups in America and the formula was supposedly a “superiority complex, insecurity, and impulse control.” I just wonder (you can tell me) if Black children get to feel pride, if they get to hear stories all the time about the success of their people. That’s kind of where that superiority complex comes in. It’s not supremacy, but more like their group is expected to be successful and examples of it are put in their face all of the time.