Where do you find the energy to develop your abilities?

How grim your life must be. If you believe the people here your partners, you don’t have a life.

I eat Wheaties. The breakfast of champions.

Set your goals, figure out what you need to do to get to those goals, and make those things your priorities. You are given 24 hours in every day. What you spend that time on is entirely up to you.

Sometimes I feel lazy. I don’t feel like doing my physical exercises. But I just tell myself to cut the crap and get going. Once I get started there’s no stopping me.

Try to eliminate negative thoughts.

You may be right that people don’t care about you. People are too busy caring about them selves. You don’t need them. You don’t need the government to help you. You just need yourself. Take care of you.

Good health!
Get strong and stay strong!

At least you have us! You seem like an interesting person, learning English and expanding your mind outside your region. That seems like a great start! :)

@HP Lots of us care about eachother, there’s plenty of room for newbies, too.

I don’t. I try to sleep when I am tired and eat when I am hungry. I am grateful for when I get the energy to accomplish anything of value, and don’t know how to get such energy on demand.

For me, when I went to part-time work, and during the time that I wasn’t employed. I find it amazing people who work full time have enough energy and time to explore hobbies, exercise, and develop new skills.

Some people do have much more stamina than others.

Retirement is wonderful for many people because of this very thing. They revisit fun things they were interested in when they were in school, and explore new interests.

Is there any way you can turn creating into a career for yourself?

@HP I think he doesn’t actually mean “partner” in the literal sense. It’s more of a translation error. I think what he means is “members of Fluther”.

But if it’s true that nobody cares about him except us, that’s a bit concerning…

Yes. I think it’s a translation thing as well. The difference between partners and (for instance) fellow members or participants.

I specifically used the word partner because it often has a higher price than the word friend. Many here are ready for partnership. It is enough for me to find you and offer you an opportunity worthy of you.
I believe in the charisma and greatness of the members, and they can give me a ticket to the future and even something more.
If life is a game, then unshakable souls protect others from falling and lead to flourishing.

So it appears you do understand the nuance involved after all.

This isn’t a language interpretation thing and you actually slog through life talking (and I assume) thinking like this?

What exactly happened that left you with no one who cares about you?

It’s not true no one cares. Someone always cares. Even strangers care.

“It is enough for me to find you and offer you an opportunity worthy of you.”
“I believe in the charisma and greatness of the members, and they can give me a ticket to the future and even something more.”
OthersWILL NOT GIVE YOU a ticket to the future..its up to you to go get it yourself, as you are the only one responsible for your life goals.
Take interst classes, look online expand your mind , take online classes of interests that may take you to another type of hobby or business that you would love in the end .
( example: Domestika.org has thousands of multi language courses of many people in the world teaching online from crafts,writing, business and so on…look it up check out there videos of introduction of each area of interest and find your tribe who would like the same things..its a start.
As to where do you get the energy to persue a goal..one makes the time for oneself to use his 24 hours in a day to devote to a goal one bit at at time.

It just doesn’t add up.

@HP.
If someone else had said it and not you, then I wouldn’t be so ashamed for me.
My innate virtues have never been able to overcome adversity. My life didn’t consist of a sequence of luck and fortune. In my life, injustice has never turned in my direction. This is a very curious moment. Fate.
I’ll see you around. It does look likely.
Slogan of California is Eureka. It is pleasant to find Eureka in reality.

This is not about energy
It’s about time
Make the time
Spend the time
Do the time
Don’t let time pass you by
Do the deed
If you want it
Go get it
Nobody else is going to do it for you