I’m very covid cautious. Covid is rampant in the schools here in Southern California, especially since the mask mandates were lifted. The positivity rate is very high in my area. The only people I purposely have contact with are all high risk individuals. For privacy’s sake, I won’t go into their medical histories here. The only people I am around without a mask are in my own household. We are all fully vaccinated and boosted, and we mostly stay home.
Unfortunately, pretty much no one in this area masks up anywhere, except for me and my few people in my little covid cautious bubble.
I avoid anything indoors, no stores without double masking, always wear N95s, and I rarely go inside stores, especially since the numbers got high again. I mostly do curbside grocery pickup or order things online.
I don’t go to restaurants inside, and rarely ever go through a drive through. I cook most of our meals at home. I don’t go to movies, or concerts, or parties, or family gatherings. I work from home.
Even before the numbers got high again, I always masked up and wiped down the shopping carts and use hand sanitizer, and dodge and weave whenever I was inside a store.
Over the last 3 months, both of my elderly neighbors on either side of us got covid, because they were never very cautious to begin with, and when the CDC told everyone that is was OK to stop masking, they did, and promptly caught covid and spread it to their friends, and families. One of them got extremely sick. Both had their original vaccinations, and at least one booster, but one got it for certain before she had her 2nd booster.
My best friend’s 40 year old cousin died an excruciating death from Covid in January of this year. She had no underlying health conditions that they were aware of. The family was very anti-mask and were simply not taking precautions. At that time, all the experts were saying to be careful over the holidays, but she and her family decided to go on a ski vacation with a bunch of other people, all unmasked, and one of the kids had covid and she caught it and ended up with severe breathing problems and something called (if I remember properly) “shattered glass lung”. She got pneumonia, and had to be intubated, and died within 5 days of being admitted to the hospital.
In February, the family held a massive funeral where hundreds of people packed inside of a church, mostly everyone was unmasked, and the woman’s own father ended up getting Covid along with a bunch of other people who attended. It was a super spreader event.
Since the beginning of the pandemic, I have personally lost 4 friends to Covid, and I know countless people, friends, family members, and acquaintances, who have gotten covid, several of them multiple times, and at least 3 friends (that I know of) are suffering from Long Covid.
I don’t foresee being less cautious anytime soon. If the people who I am closest to and love weren’t high risk people, I might be a little less cautious, but I doubt it. My own health is precious, and I want to stay healthy and safe, but I also don’t want to knowingly, or unknowingly spread covid to my own loves ones, or to any vulnerable people who are total strangers to me.
I think the government entities whose job it is to maintain public health (especially the CDC) have failed. The government itself has failed, first with Trump and the anti-maskers and anti-vaxers, but also the current administration who despite the President and his wife getting covid (and getting the isolation and gold standard treatment we all would like) carries on mask-less as if covid were a thing of the past. It isn’t, and now there is just a sense of society having “covid fatigue” and just throwing caution to the wind, which in my opinion is a very dangerous precedent to follow.
As I read this question yesterday, I got a text from a friend telling me that her nephew now has Covid. The young man’s brother had Covid last month.
I don’t see an end to this until we get vaccines that are much more efficient. They need vaccines (or is it inoculations?) to prevent the virus from infecting people, otherwise it just continues to spread, and mutate.
And for anyone reading this in the future, it is September 2022. Two and a half years into the pandemic. I have kept a daily log of how many days I have been “sheltering at home” and I am on day 902 : (