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What do you personally do about condolences? (please see details)
When you receive condolences because a family member has passed away, how do you acknowledge that? Do you hand write a note, thank them in an email? A Facebook message? Text? Phone call? Does it matter how close they were to the deceased? To you personally?
I am asking what you would do, not what you think I should do.
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