It feels difficult to do this question justice, but I’ll try.
How was it taught at different ages?
I was ten when I first heard about the Holocaust in school. We looked at pictures of kids in Nazi uniforms and read excerpts of childrens’ books like “When Hitler Stole Pink Rabbit”, which is about a Jewish girl fleeing Germany with her family. We learned that the Nazis were ruthless and that it’s our collective responsibility to never let anything like this happen again.
I felt sad and upset, though there were no terrifying details provided at that age. It was more of an introduction. Because from then on, the Holocaust was discussed quite frequently – I think we spent at least a few weeks on it every year, as well as mentions throughout class whenever appropriate. As we became young teens, we learned more about how Hitler came to power and what it was like to be Jewish (or otherwise persecuted) during the Nazi time, but this material was presented in an age-appropriate way. We did not hear about the starvation, the beatings, or the conditions at the concentration camps in detail (at that age). It was more about realising the enormity of what happened and how it has changed our society. We were asked to interview our older relatives and I think one classmate’s grandmother came to talk to us in class. We visited museums and plays. We also read the book “The Wave”, which is very powerful and affected me deeply.
When I was around 15, we read “The Diary of Anne Frank” and learned about the antisemitic propaganda and Hitler’s demented ideas on eugenics/race theory. I think keeping this away from younger kids is the right choice. We also watched movies like “Life is Beautiful” and documentaries about Sophie Scholl and the concentration camps. This was when I first learned about the gas chambers.
In high school, we talked about the war strategy for the first time, but only very briefly. My American-educated husband knows more about that than I do. We discussed the difference between patriotism and nationalism and the dangers of neo-Nazi movements. At this age, it was common for students or teachers to bring up the Nazi time in different subjects, such as German classes, sociology, English…for instance, we talked about patriotism in other countries and discussed how parenting was affected by Hitler’s (very cold) advice on child-rearing. Many high school or college courses visit the former concentration camps. Personally, I did not. I feel conflicted (like it’s my duty), but I think I would throw up.
I don’t remember ever not knowing about the Shoah, and I think that’s typical. My family speaks about politics and history quite openly. But also, it’s hard to avoid (which is a good thing, of course). Every time there was an election, my parents would care not just about who won, but also talk about whether the fascist parties were waxing or waning. Angela Merkel would be on TV reminding us that we’re responsible…in the cities, there are golden cobblestones (Stolpersteine) at the former homes of victims. And there are, unfortunately, “protests” of neo-Nazi groups, which parents should educate their kids about.
What impact has it had on German society?
I think that privileged Germans are well-educated in this matter, and that this is quite an effective safeguard against becoming radicalized. It’s definitely not done to joke about the Holocaust, do a Hitler salute, or say (think?) anything antisemitic. It helps that aspects of this are treated as crimes, such as displaying a swastika or denying the Holocaust happened. But still, we have fascist parties and tabloids or blogs gently spreading lies. Not about race theory, in general, but about the decline of German culture, our amazing language, “they’re coming for your jobs”...that sort of thing. The newish party "AFD" is a real problem. Their rhetoric is not obvious enough for them to be seen as the threat they are. And some people, usually older ones in my experience, do think that we should be proud of our country. Fly our flags and stop feeling bad about something we could not have prevented because we weren’t alive. So there’s a divide there.
Do you think it has been a positive reckoning for your country?
Yes. But I wish that instead, it had not happened.
Was anyone you know traumatized by the learning?
The more sensitive kids (me included) did struggle with some of the material. But that’s okay. It’s okay and natural to be horrified by heinous crimes. It’s human and healthy to feel nauseated when you realise that people were beaten, tortured, and murdered right where you’re standing.
I think our teachers did a good job in allowing us to talk about how we were affected. I remember occasional moments of silence for the victims, and it felt appropriate to be mindful of the harm done. The generational trauma is real, and the shame is probably not healthy. But the guilt is appropriate, the memory needs to be kept alive, and knowing that can feel freeing. Like you’re doing a small thing for those who died and suffered.
I think in some ways, my own mind protected me: I’ve had stronger reactions re-reading those kids’ books as an adult. The most difficult experience of all for me was visiting a Nazi prison just a few years ago. There were marks on the floor. People had tried to claw their way out.