When you have a child, you love them so much, so selflessly, when the child is sick, you’d gladly and willingly take that illness yourself if it meant the child would be well again. If a disaster came, you would without question, take a bullet in place of the child or run in the street to save the child or any number of things like that.
When my daughter was little, I had a lot of stress from working full time with a long, sucky commute but I would love to go back in time right now to when she was so little and so cute. Every time I look at little kids, I think about how much work it was and yet I would do it again in a heartbeat. I say that all the time to friends, when we’re out and we see little kids, I say I would love to go back to that time and have my daughter be little again. She is 15 now, and I know one day I will look back at this time, when I’m driving her and her friends to the school plays or to Girl Scouts to sell cookies, or taking them to the mall, one day I’ll long for this time because it will be no more. I’m cherishing the vacations we go on because I know that in a few years she will be either hanging out with friends more or with a boyfriend or working full time and not be so available to join me on vacations, and I’ll wish for this time again.
@Acrylic I had “a village” with my mom and my stepfather who helped a lot when my daughter was little. My daughter loved her Nana and Nana loved my daughter so much! They were so cute together. My mother died when my daughter was 9 but those 9 years my daughter had with my mother, doing crafts, baking, going on trips, hanging out, playing in the yard, those times were so wonderful for my daughter, she has such great memories. I figured from the get-go that the more positive relationships my daughter has in her life, the better.
To answer the question, before I had my daughter, I knew it would be a lot of work and sacrifice. Fortunately my daughter was pretty easy, but yes, it’s not all fun and games. I’m not a perfect parent, there are no perfect parents, there are no perfect children. I would go back and do it all over again without question, if I could.