Alcohol is typically derived from the fermentation of “sugar crops,” like sugar cane, beets, corn, etc. You may have seen YouTube videos of monkeys, or squirrels drunk from eating old/fermented fruits. Glucose/sugar is important for most lifeforms’ survival. So. It’s going to be something that all animals desire. The solution that is Alcohol’s main ingredient is ethanol.
In addition to Alcohol being a product of sugar, most alcohol intended for human consumption, has lots of sugar added. Sweet taste also helps conceal the taste of alcohol. As any bartender, or man knows. Girls like sweet alcoholic beverages. Why is this important? Men (not all, but those in search of “easy” prey)prefer the company of the lesser sexually inhibited version of a girl, than the less gullible sober chick. If a guy is buying a female sweet liquor beverages, he likely is working on getting her drunk. The sweeter the beverage, the more of it a girl is likely to want to drink. Bars want men. But. They need women to get men. That’s why bars frequently have specials on sweet alcoholic beverages.
It is said that a girl who drinks “drinks her calories, not eat them.” I don’t care what the stats say. I have been a man, and a bouncer for enough time to see this saying hold true.
The popularity of fruity beverages with low calories, is not accidental. It’s a thinly veiled attempt at keeping women sloshed.
So. When people are addicted to alcohol, they are also addicted to sugar. That is why people crave chocolate, or other sweet things, when not drinking.
Suggestion. I used to drink these sweet carbonated beverages with zero sugar, when I was recovering. The ones I drank were available in the flavored water sections of grocery stores, and were only $1 a bottle. I was used to not just drinking alcohol, but the habit of frequently sipping a beer during sporting events, or in social situations. Having something satisfying both my cravings for sugar, and my habit of constantly drinking something helped. Give it a try.
I can’t speak on the PMS subject. But. I know chocolate helps that too.
We’ve all been used. We’ve all been slaves to something. It is what it is. However. Wouldn’t it be nice to know that you aren’t a slave to a bottle, or being used? I can tell you that 99% of people who stop drinking have no interest in never drinking again. But. That is the smartest way to go, for most. If you can keep it self moderated, you may prefer that. But. The longer you go without drinking, the more you see it for what it is. A trap, for lesser minds…
Personally. I always thought I was doing fine, when I led my old life. Looking back on some of the things I did, it’s clear that I was a terrible person. Not intentionally. But alcohol leeds to worse decisions than sexual indiscretion. (Although that’s pretty fucking bad.) My impaired judgment led me to drive drunk, fight, or engage in other reckless behavior. It’s no fun having a girlfriend who drank either. Spending all night keeping your girl out of trouble and carrying her over your shoulder back to our place was a blast.~
Worst of all. I could never trust a girl who drank, to be faithful. Trust is essential in any relationship. I always had to hide my lifestyle from the girls I truly desired, because they didn’t approve of it. Well. I lost some great opportunities because of that. Opportunities that would have eventually led to me having a much happier life, with a soul mate, and children. I had some apocalyptic soul mates, that were fun, but never rewarding long term, always leaving me worse going than when I got involved with them. Children. It’s certainly possible. Long story. Well. And several short stories…
Anyways. SQ. I know you haven’t had the easiest life. Running the gauntlet of life with bottles tied to your legs makes it even more difficult. And although it’s definitely harder to stay the course you are currently charting. It will be vastly more rewarding, and provide you the life you so obviously deserve.
I’m not the smartest person in the world. But. It doesn’t take super intelligence to see that you are capable of greatness.
For what it’s worth.
I believe in you…