Is it ok with spouses groping and leering at eachother? (NSFW)

Of course it’s ok if they both want to. It’s half the fun of foreplay!

What even is this question. I can’t even tell what you’re trying to ask? Is it ok with me and my spouse if who does those those things? Another couple, to each other, in public, in front of us?

If that’s what you mean, then it depends on the spouse, and the situation. Sometimes yes; sometimes no – of course.

I don’t have a real problem with PDAs providing they aren’t going too far. Kissing is fine, grabbing a boob or the guys package isn’t. That is more a sense of aesthetics for me. Grabbing like that is just tacky. As for things like looking down cleavage or checking out an ass or something like that, I have no problem with that at all. Couples are still allowed to play like that in public. If my wife wears an outfit that shows off her assets, I certainly am going to look.

“Groping and leering” isn’t OK but touching and smiling can be quite endearing.

In most instances, I DON’T have a problem with PDA; however, every now & then some take it a little further than I feel comfortable witnessing. It has been my experience that most of the uncomfortable stuff happens between non-married couples as most married couples can wait until they get home to go at it. They may tease a little bit, but they don’t embarrass those around them.

I agree with @Zaku that it depends on the situation. There are some situations where it may be ok to be more overt than others. Maybe in a park a couple can be more demonstrative and playful than they would be at a wedding or a restaurant. It all depends. As my grandmother would say (in reference to situations and circumstances in general), “there’s a time and a place for everything.”

Depends where.

At church or in a concert, probably not a good idea.

At home with willing partners, who cares? If God didn’t want us to leer, he wouldn’t have given us eyes and a libido.

Is it ok with whom? The question as written doesn’t make much sense.

^^^ I assume any onlookers.

Consenting adults can do what they like as long as no one is hurt in private. My opinion is that even spouses in public can be looked at as being obnoxious if they are going beyond what a reasonable person would find offensive.

@janbb I ment in private. Does anyone enjoy being groped and leered at?

@RedDeerGuy1 Every couple’s sexual communication styles is probably unique to that couple. Groping and leering certainly don’t sound very pleasant but who can say what labels the recipient puts on it.

I guess it depends on one’s definition of groped and leered at. I enjoyed being looked at with lust in his eyes, made me feel desireable. As for groping, I did a little of that myself. 8D Strange question imo.

Save it for the bedroom.

“Does anyone enjoy being groped and leered at?”
– Yes, some do. Though it depends by whom. And how, context, etc.