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What does the psychology concept to "recharge your batteries" after spending time in a group mean ?

Asked by RedDeerGuy1 (24986points) July 22nd, 2023

I hear that introverts need time alone to “recharge their batteries”?

What does that mean?

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Smashley's avatar

Social interaction requires energy. The level is effort is different for different people. Mental exertion is not particularly different from physical exertion. “Recharging your batteries” means to take a rest from those efforts, mental and/or physical, before you continue.

RedDeerGuy1's avatar

@Smashley I still don’t get it?

It it chemicals in the brain?
If so then what specific chemicals are depleted?
Can one take a pill to replenish them?

LuckyGuy's avatar

My amazing Garmin Fitness watch has a Body Battery feature that effectively indicates my body’s state of charge. “Physical activity, stress, rest and sleep: Each has a discernible impact on your ability to keep pace, tackle challenges and adapt to your environment. Our Body Battery feature, powered by the Firstbeat Analytics engine, accounts for all of these elements together to form a simple, easy-to-follow report of your body’s energy levels.”

Full description here: Body Battery

Sleep recharges our body batteries.

smudges's avatar

People wear me out. When I’m alone I recover my energy so I’m willing to be with people again.

kritiper's avatar

Time spent with the group was stressful. It means to unwind and get your head back to normal thought operations.

gondwanalon's avatar

I’m an introvert that avoids parties and crowds.
What part of physical and mental exhaustion don’t you understand?
I’m not a bio chemistry expert. But I don’t need to to know that those people are draining the freaking life right out of me.
It’s like that old movie, “The Dark Crystal” where those ugly old birds drain the living essence of of the young birds. That’s what it’s like.
After a short while all I can think about is getting away to recharge.

YARNLADY's avatar

It is a comparison to an electrical term for people resting and recovering from being overstimulated.

RedDeerGuy1's avatar

@all I thought that It might be like Dungeons and Dragon’s; Where one needs to relearn spells cast throughout the day?

Thanks everyone! I will ask my doctor or psychologist next time that I remember to.

Jeruba's avatar

Simplistically put: extroverts draw energy from social interaction; it makes them feel refreshed and replenished. It’s just the way they are.

Introverts spend energy on social interaction and need time alone to restore their energy. It’s just the way they are too.

That replenishing is referred to metaphorically as recharging batteries.

Which way you recharge your batteries is a way of determining whether you belong in the extroverts’ or introverts’ camp.

JLeslie's avatar

Time to be alone and rest. To have no demands put on them by others.

I’m an extrovert, and I don’t use the term recharge my battery for myself, but when I was younger I needed a lot of sleep; and as I age, even though I don’t need as much sleep, I am still obsessed with getting enough. I firmly believe lack of sleep causes an increase in illness, accidents, and deaths. Sleeping is like charging batteries in an electronic device.

Even as an extrovert I want some quiet time away from people putting demands on me. I like being able to close the curtain and not constantly be on. I can do it with other people around, other people like me, but usually people will accuse people like me of being lazy, and that makes it better to do it alone. Sleeping late, taking a nap, watching TV, usually are looked down on by US society, but that’s how I stay healthy and recharge mentally and physically.

LuckyGuy's avatar

This just gave me the idea of a fun experiment!
The Garmin Body Battery function takes input from your heart beat, autonomic system, breathing,, It knows when you are under stress: both physical and mental. High stress wears your body battery down faster than low stress.
Imagine 15 individuals at a gathering: 5 introverts, 5 extroverts and 5 middle of the roaders. Take BB measurements before and after. a 2 hour long group meeting where people are forced to socialize and look at the Body Battery depletion for each person.

Watches cost about $450 and, except for charging time, they must be worn continuously so they can learn and adapt to each individual’s body physiology. The 2 hour test can be run any time after the one month device training process.
This sounds like an excellent undergrad thesis.

Forever_Free's avatar

I think everyone needs their alone time to recharge. This is not exclusive to introverts.
It doesn’t have to be as focused as meditation, but you are not taxing your brain or bombarding it with uncontrolled stimulus.
Everyone does it differently. Some people just want to be alone even if doing something productive. Some people just read a book, some zone out on mindless TV, some sit by the ocean or a body of water.
I can recharge by sitting on my John Deere and cutting the lawn for an hour or reading a book on my porch.

LadyMarissa's avatar

@RedDeerGuy1 For me it is more of an “emotional” drain than a chemical one. I don’t think that there’s a pill for that. When engaging with others, I find it wears me out to keep the conversation going & engage in a meaningful convo. At the end, I am physically & emotionally drained of any desire to continue. I just need some time to myself where I can turn on my favorite music, relax, & regain my strength!!! I don’t think of it as recharging my battery as much as “me time”. I need a bit of time that I don’t “have to” think about any specific idea or problem…just allow the brain to relax!!! A good night’s sleep will usually do it, but going to sleep right away is NOT always an option. Some people meditate, but that doesn’t usually work for me because my thoughts tend to creep in. That’s why I prefer using music. It keeps my mind occupied while my brain does NOTHING until I feel better!!!

KNOWITALL's avatar

I agree with @smudges. It’s also why I gravitate to animals and nature, even with people I’ll be taking selfies w their dog more often than doing shots.

smudges's avatar

^^ I know right?! I’d be a terrible police witness unless they wanted a description of the dog a criminal was walking!

Blackwater_Park's avatar

When you are with a group of people you get locked in to their conversations, mood etc. I find that when I am required to interact with certain groups of people it is draining because I’m not at all interested in what they are doing or talking about and you cannot even escape into your own mind. You have to participate and it is brutally exhausting. Then there are other groups like coworkers where we are on the same level and have similar interests. Conversations and interactions are quite stimulating and refreshing. Some of this sadly, is intelligence. If you’re one or two standard deviations separated from the rest of the group in any direction it will likely make interactions difficult and draining. The effect is often stronger for those who are more intelligent because there are fewer places for them to escape to with people they can relate with. Personally, I need alone time to fully recharge and I just don’t get that much. I’m not sure exactly why being alone is essentially a requirement for me at times. I can get moody if I have not had enough. It’s like I need that time to grow my fuse back.

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