@Caravanfan I guess, and probably my paranoid comment was not fair, but as I have a lot of things delivered successfully, I’m sure others do too. And a lot of times people that worry excessively about that, well, just seems kind of paranoid
@filmfann never mind my somewhat doubtful baking skills, sometimes you have to recognize that some people will not be open to friendly overtures, and may in fact use any such outreach as a reason to blame you for bothering them.
@jca2 yes, to the second incident, and I’m not sure to the first. But I know that she’s good friends with the people upstairs, and I suspect it was one of them. As far as the concerns your second comment, as I try and catch up with all the people who have responded, I understand what you’re saying about going to the top, but that can also be a negative thing if you’re trying to maintain good relations with the immediate people in charge. Because those are the people who often get chewed out by those above them and then they tend to get their back up towards the person who complained. Although I am certainly aware that that is an option, I prefer to leave that for later if I need to.
@gorillapaws while your idea amuses me, I am not further trying to exacerbate the situation. Even now I would be willing to meet and talk about the whole thing, although probably with rental companies staff present. I don’t think taking a step like an RC car is the way to go. But you did make me laugh!
@seawulf575 all I’m using ideas, but again I’m not trying to potentially make the situation worse. I’m not trying to get revenge, I just want to either have friendly relations with my neighbors or to at least have them leave me alone.
@JLeslie it’s motion detected, but it’s not a prerecorded message although I think there are options for that because I’ve heard a response that she gives to solicitors coming to the door that she’s not interested. The thing is when I typically get home from work, I’m a homebody and don’t usually go out again. So the times these things have happened are if I’ve gone down to my mailbox because there was something in particular that I was expecting that I didn’t want to just wait until the next morning to retrieve when I leave for work. I get email notifications for all my bills due and I pay them online, so most of what I get in the mail is junk. But I do order things for my craft hobbies. And asking her not to say something would probably prompt her to do so more. It’s not a recording. I don’t know if her device records what she says to people, but it’s not like she’s going to provide that information.
@kevbo1 it is not in my nature, I’m totally against my moral values to try and retaliate or harass this person. So that’s not something to worry about. As far as moving, I would not incur the expense that’s involved with that just for the situation. Also, moving is really stressful and with my various health issues, I don’t need to add more stress to my life. Thanks for all the info though!
@MrGrimm888 you are not wrong. But, here’s my thought. Knowing that there have been negative incidents when cops have been called, over the top actions for certain groups of people, that’s not something I want to do just yet. I will certainly keep it as an option on the table but from what I have seen in the year and a half that I have lived here, the rental office people are actually pretty good at taking care of stuff like this. They should be calling me back tomorrow to let me know how the conversation went and if they have not already done so, then I’m going to ask them to ask her not to have anything else to say to me. A week or so ago when it was different lady, the one vacuuming at 3:45 a.m. in the morning directly above my head, when I sent an email to the rental office, they called her. She of course denied it and then turned it around and said that I was harassing her. So when they called me back they were sympathetic to what I had to say but they did suggest that from now on if I had any problems I just contact them. So I would expect their response to be the same to my neighbor. And if it’s not, then that’s where I take further steps because if you are asking one person to do that, then there’s no reason why that solution shouldn’t be the one for everyone. Otherwise, I start to question if there’s some sort of favoritism going on, and that’s when I go over their heads, and or call the cops. But I seriously think it’s going to get taken care of before that. Things have been very quiet today.