@JLeslie sorry, it was the use of your word “forcing” that made me think you were implying rape. Not too long ago I was having this conversation with somebody on Twitter, and they kept insisting that the Holy Spirit had raped Mary. And I guess I had that in the back of my mind when I was reading what you said but I’m sorry if I misinterpreted it.
It’s true that the Jewish people do not make sacrifices today, but if you read the Old Testament, that’s what the Jewish law in the Pentateuch, the first five books of the Bible, calls for them to do. It’s an interesting read, but it can be dry in spots as it goes into great detail of what they are to bring for a sin atonement, for a peace offering, etc. but the idea was that once Jesus died, there was no more need for that sacrifice. Which makes it interesting to me that although the Jewish people do not believe that Jesus was the Messiah, sometime not long after that, they stopped making sacrifices.
And yes, we Christians believe that we should go to others and reconcile with them when we have done them wrong, although hopefully more in the moment and not just once a year. And I don’t mean to say that that’s the only time you all do that, but we don’t have a holiday commemorating that in particularly.
But we also believe that you cannot earn your salvation by doing good works. Because we have all sinned, nothing we can do is good enough to earn salvation. So that the whole idea is that one had to come who was perfect, Jesus Christ, who would make the ultimate sacrifice so that we did not have to die for our sins.
I know it sounds horrific, and if I may use yet another imperfect example, how would you react if you and your mother were in some horrible situation where you were told that your mother was going to have to die unless you were willing to die in her place? Yes, it’s horrible to contemplate, and I guess everybody’s response would be different. My mother is no longer living on Earth, (I do believe that she is in heaven now!) , but I know that when she was here on earth, if I had been faced with that situation, I would have happily laid down my life for her because of the great love I felt for her. So I use this example to show you that that is the same love that Jesus felt for us, that he was willing to lay down his life to save us. And yes, it is sometimes overwhelming to think of what he went through for me, for you, for everybody. But that’s how great his love is.
If you’re interested, do go back and read in the Old Testament about the sacrifices. It will quickly come to your attention that these sacrifices had to be perfect and without blemish. They couldn’t bring a sheep or a calf to be sacrificed that was injured or had some other imperfection. That points to the later sacrifice of Jesus, who was the only man, God come to Earth, who was perfect in every way. It couldn’t have been anybody else because we have all sinned. It had to be a perfect sacrifice.