@deaddolly: Talking about the 1 child per couple limit, just imagine a single moment what will happen if couple could have 2 or 3 children, there are more than 1.300 millions Chinese, with too many children, the country will be purely and simply a mess, because it has already a lot of problems based upon its inhabitants number, and the food problem, water problem and place problem is becoming really serious, this one child per couple may seems rude, but I truly think it’s something required.
People forced to live in some area they may not want to live, yes, it’s something usual in China, but how do you call someone earning too less money to only rent a “flat”, in a ghetto ? I mean, for example in Paris, there are dozen of old buildings hosting tons of people having jobs, paying fee and taxes, in really unhealthy conditions.
China has a long way to go before reaching what we can call “a good way to treat their people”, but that’s just our opinion, as occidental people, I mean, we were educated and lived in occidental countries, and if you talk with most of the China inhabitant, they will tell you that’s live condition are, for most of them, improving and that they don’t feel neglected. China has a very long history and has a very old culture, with things “occidentals” may not understand, in their behavior, or other way they can live.
I’m interested in Chinese culture and history since some times, and before looking for having my own opinion about it, all I known about it was what I could have seen on tv or on documentary or articles. And this not really a good thing, a lot of facts are occurred, in good and bad ways, so you do not an subjective outline of a population.
Now I’ve got a lot of Chinese friends, with who I can discuss, my girlfriend in Chinese, so I can have the true feeling of its inhabitants. Of course, you can imagine a poor peasant working hard under a hot sun, and earning barely his life for feeding his family, but does this not exist in other countries ? I mean, you’ll always find poor peasant, the “guy from countryside” kinda stupid and blinded of the world he lived in, where is the difference between them ? There is no difference, except one is French, one is American, and the other Chinese, so he should be inferior ? I’m not telling that your saying this, but I know that’s some people state of mind.
And yes, I live in France, I travel a few, but for my saying about USA, I thought it was obvious it was exactly the cliché a foreign person can have of a country, just like flameboi can have this one about China. It was just kinda pulling the alarm to tell “Hey, try to think and look closely to something before criticize it .”