As I have said many times, when people try to blame men for everything;
If you want to see how a woman WANTS to dress, look at Halloween.
Men don’t pick these costumes for girls, they do.
Sexy nurse. Sexy pirate. Sexy ghost. Any excuse, to show off their bodies.
From what little I know of Instagram, women are constantly seeking sexual attention there, and on other sites.
The male role in female oppression, is undeniable. And we’re working on it.
In the meantime, girls are going out of their way, to post sexually provocative images on toktoc, or anywhere anyone will see them.
As a former bouncer, I can testify that women are perhaps as bad now, as men were in the 50’s. Drunk white women, are sexual predators.
They make an embarrassment out of themselves by night, then want guys in the office to just forget that and see them as equals.
Working doors, I have been sexually assaulted countless times, by women.
At Bachelorette parties, women parade giant penises around, and drink from penis straws, and give head to random strangers.
Today’s females, have a LOT to do with how they are viewed.
When I was in school, the girls would change clothes in the parking lots. Parents thought their daughters were dressed appropriately, but they wear yoga pants and low cut blouses.
I had a date have her father come get her at a movie theater once.
He was upset, because she never introduced me to him.
She changed clothes in a panic, when she knew he was on the way. Out if a tank top, into a sweater.
He was just trying to be a good Dad.
I hear very little, about drunken house moms, who actually promote their daughter’s sexuality and allow them to drink and wear adult clothes to be cool.
I KNOW, almost every woman I have ever spoken to, has a story of an older female in their childhood, that told them they were “sitting on a gold mine,” or some variation. The women train younger girls, to act this way. I GUARANTEE, there are VERY few fathers or just men, who want our children sexualized.
If you are talking about the “catholic school girl” look.
I couldn’t agree more, I would prefer something different.
But yoga pants, are far more revealing.
I flunked several classes, because of girls that sat in front of me, and how they dressed.
Most of my schooling, was in warmer climates. So really short shorts, and small tops, are more comfortable.
I won’t say there are not some men, somewhere, that want little girls to be sex objects, but I think that’s becoming more and more rare.
And the younger girls are doing most of the damage. As far as how they desire to be viewed.
I am ashamed to say, all 3 of my sisters, and many of my female friends, have been victims of sexual assault/rape. I was the baby, so I didn’t know anything until decades later, but the statistics are disturbing.
I am tempted to opine, after hearing all her stories, that Dutch simply put up with more harassment than most.
But. I know that there is truth to what she says too.
IF. IF, there is any progress to be made, females have to acknowledge and understand their role in the dynamics.
As far as Healthcare, my understanding is that a LOT of their health care requires very invasive procedures, by nature.
You CAN use a stethoscope over clothing, but there is an advantage to listening through bare skin.
Especially when we are growing, we need to be monitored for any sign of disease.
A medical professional carefully examining a child, is a good thing. The doctor might have missed a murmur, or something important.
In the years I was going through my liver failure and subsequent surgery, I eventually lost my concern about getting naked.
During the Covid years, we were ALL packed into hospitals, and there were few blankets and stuff.
I have a dermatologist now.
First appointment, they threw a gown in the exam room and bam, naked again…
There are several private schools in my city, that still have some variation of short dress, and white blouse….
