@seawulf575 Sorry for the late reply. I’ve been traveling and couldn’t get the video to load, but I didn’t want to respond without watching it.
“Except he didn’t say it was all people without children.”
Yes, he did. He says that not having children means that one has less of a stake in the country, and he then uses that claim to raise concerns about putting childless politicians in power. So while the ultimate concern may be childless politicians, that concern is based on a claim about childless people. And it is that general comment about childless people that is getting him in trouble.
If someone said “Republicans are ______, so we shouldn’t put Republicans in power,” would you say that statement was only about people in government? Of course not. And if you did, you would be wrong. It’s a statement about Republicans that is used to make an argument for not electing them or otherwise putting them in positions of power. If someone made this comment, you would be well within your rights to characterize that person as having made a claim about all Republicans (even if it is nested in an argument for not electing Republicans).
“I don’t really agree with it either, though having children does make you think a lot more about their future.”
About their specific future? Sure. When my wife and I first discussed having children, we started thinking about our child’s possible future. But him being born certainly made it all the more real. That’s not unique to one’s own children, though. Thoughts about my hypothetical future students are different than thoughts about the very real students in front of me. They don’t need to be my own for me to think a lot about their future (especially since I specialize in working with kids who are below grade level).
“Miserable people is the point he was making. Miserable people that have put career ahead of family their entire lives and how they hate middle America who puts family as a top priority. People that have chased power and status for so long, they missed out on enjoying a family of their own. So they work feverishly against the idea of family.”
First, I don’t think this is true. The original speech that prompted the interview doesn’t talk about miserable people. It talks about parenthood and empowering parents against the “childless left” (which he characterizes as anti-family and anti-child). And in his recent clarifications, he also doesn’t talk about miserable people. He mainly focuses on the “cat ladies” part (which isn’t the actual issue, so classic deflection there) and again characterizes his opponents as anti-family and anti-child. And when his wife decided to clarify his comments once again, she claimed he was talking about how “it can be really hard to be a parent in this country, and sometimes our policies are designed in a way that make it even harder.” So while there have been several attempts to reframe and restate what Vance “really meant,” none of these clarifications have brought up the “miserable people” line of argument.
Second, it might be even worse if you were correct because it would be such a repulsively ignorant caricature of his opponents. Republicans and Democrats have different ideas about the best ways to do things, and the politicians who represent them seek to magnify and exploit those differences. But not every opponent is an enemy. Democrats and Democratic politicians are not hunched over in the dark, rubbing their hands and plotting to destroy the idea of family, just as Republicans and Republican politicians are not hunched over in the dark, rubbing their hands and plotting to destroy the environment. This idea that people who are different from us are “working feverishly” against all we hold dear is both pernicious and false, and it gets in the way of real conversations about what should be done. It also obscures the fact that there are many topics on which Americans across the country are in agreement.