Can you answer this dating phrase?
Years ago I was told that women marry up.
What does that mean?
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I think it means they consider their own socio-economic level, and they try to marry someone above that level.
Its a sexist saying, that means women marry a higher class man. Usually implying they’re a gold-digger.
I sure as hell missed that memo!
I married sideways in both looks and intelligence. We “upped” financially together.
My wife lives about 5 miles north and about 1.5 miles west of me, so she married SSW. ;-)
My wife, Morgan Fairchild (whom I have seen naked!!), married way down. ;-p
@Brian1946
Correction, you geographically-challenged dork: your poor wife married SSE.
It’s an old fashioned and sexist idea.
This reminds me of that Cher quote. Her mother once said to her, “You should marry a rich man”, to which Cher responded, “Mama, I am a rich man.”
(@janbb: Same. My wife and I are similarly educated and both started with no money. Worked our way up together.)
I did marry up. I didn’t try to; I didn’t even really realize how far up I was marrying. Anyway, I left that clan after I got the most important things…...my girls.
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