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Why do dogs stare at you while you are eating if they don't want the food?

Asked by Mimishu1995 (23800points) 1 month ago

I have encountered a few dogs that do something really strange: when I eat something, they would come to me and stare at me intensely, which those eyes that clearly say “please give me a bit of what you eat”. I would throw a small scrap of the food for them, and they just smell it then walk away. Then a few seconds later when I’m back at my food they would come back again with the same begging eyes. And the process repeats.

I’m really confused and a little annoyed about this. Why do they come to me begging if they don’t even like the food to begin with? Or is that not begging but something else completely different?

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RedDeerGuy1's avatar

Maybe they want something specific from your plate?

Like meat.

Brian1946's avatar

It’s intriguing that you’re hounded by random dogs while you’re eating.
Are you eating in a kennel or a dog park? ;-)
Is indoor dining illegal where you live. ;-p

Otherwise, I agree with @RedDeerGuy1.

Mimishu1995's avatar

@Brian1946 I’m referring to several incidents, and each time I was with one dog. I’m not surrounded by a pack of dogs :P

In my country sometimes dogs can walk inside restaurants. They would walk around looking for leftovers from customers or even go beg themselves. And that is how I saw that behavior. I also have friends who have dogs and that happens too.

Once I was in a friend’s house and I was eating a bag of chips. There was nothing inside except chips. The dog came begging and I threw a slide for her and she just walked away then came begging again. I guess she was expecting something else?

elbanditoroso's avatar

I think you are attributing more intelligence to dogs than they really have.

They look at you eating and they want whatever it is. They don’t have the mental capacity to understand that they might not want the food after all. So they wait and beg, and then reject it because they have no context.

Brian1946's avatar

@Mimishu1995

“In my country sometimes dogs can walk inside restaurants.”

Ah, so I was wrong about where you were eating.
Apparently self-closing doors are illegal over there. ;-p

seawulf575's avatar

Dogs have some pack instincts. If the alpha of the pack is eating something, they might be looking to see if it is something they should be getting. When you throw them a scrap, they sniff it and turn away because it isn’t something that appeals to their nose. But then you go back to eating so they know you are eating something and it might be something different than you offered.

I was once eating green olives. My dog was looking at me like it was something he wanted. I told him he didn’t want it but he was sure he did. So I tossed him an olive. He sniffed it and looked at me like I was joking. But then the cat ran in and ate the olive. The dog looked highly offended and told me he wanted a second chance. So I tossed him another olive. He picked it up in his mouth and then dropped it out. And the cat ate that one also. This repeated until the dog ate an olive just to keep the cat from having it.

ragingloli's avatar

They see you are eating something, and they might want it. Then they take a closer look/sniff, and decide it’s not to their liking.
Or maybe they are just fucking with you.

KNOWITALL's avatar

Cats do it too. I think theyre just curious.

Strauss's avatar

Pack behavior makes them think, “You are eating. It must be good. I want some!” Then they determine that it’s not something they want.

Dutchess_III's avatar

Because the 2nd…3rd…time they hope you’re eating something different.

Forever_Free's avatar

They secretly do want it.

flutherother's avatar

They’re checking you out. If they figure you’re an illegal immigrant they will run for the door.

RocketGuy's avatar

My dog wants to know what it smells like, to evaluate if she really wants it. When she gets really curious while I am eating, I’ll blow a breath towards her nose. Most of the time that’s enough. This dog is not much into people food. Previous dog loved people food.

longgone's avatar

How are they supposed to know a bag of crisps contains only crisps? I bet they’re hoping that you’re eating several different types of food, as humans very often do. If you’re eating a salad, the dog would probably decline lettuce and tomato, but then happily accept feta cheese.

The reason they’re insistent is just past success. Most dogs have a strong history of getting very tasty food after begging incessantly. They’ve learned to be persistent. If they act cute enough, maybe you’ll even get up and fetch some better snacks!

snowberry's avatar

Every dog I have ever had was obsessed with “people food”, Even if they won’t like it, if it’s in your hand, they’ll want it!

RocketGuy's avatar

My dog turns away at the slightest hint of sourness.

LifeQuestioner's avatar

Could it be that if you’re in a restaurant, that the smell of something like a steak is coming from a certain direction, maybe near you. So the dog approaches you thinking that you are eating the steak, but then when you offer them some of your food, they just walk away disappointed. Otherwise I have no idea.

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